Although it is reasonable to exist, what if it exceeds a certain one? Degree? . It's just that even if you barely do it, it doesn't make sense. It will leave many hidden dangers and may break out one day. In fact, in modern society, there are many problems in marriage because of bride price and buying a house and car.
Bride gift-giving is a traditional etiquette since ancient times. Even the man's family, no matter how poor the family conditions, has no great resistance to a certain bride price standard in society, because it is taken for granted.
After all, it is not easy to marry a daughter-in-law in this objective reality of more men and fewer women. In the cruel marriage competition, it is nothing for the man to pay more for getting married as soon as possible. Even if you borrow a lot of money, even if you do everything for your parents, as long as you don't get there? Lose everything? Point, then all the efforts are worth it.
It can be said that in today's society, this reasonable degree is not to let the man's family? Lose everything? What if it arrives? Lose everything? Degree, is completely unreasonable. And this kind of marriage piled up by parents' sacrifice and money is difficult to achieve ultimate happiness.
For example, to marry a daughter-in-law for a son and buy a house and a car for a bride price, not only do they have to bear foreign debts, but their parents even buy their own houses and don't even have a place to live. Is it really here? Lose everything? The point is.
A son can't abandon his parents, can he You can't afford not to pay your debts. Can you and your married daughter-in-law bear the heavy pressure and feel at ease? Undoubtedly, if you don't have deep feelings, if you don't live sincerely, it will be difficult to resist great pressure, and there will be many contradictions between husband and wife in real life, which will probably erupt completely one day.
In fact, those women's parents who really think of their daughters and recognize the son-in-law's character will not deliberately exceed the economic conditions of the man's family and put forward excessive conditions because they know that this is unreasonable. Only those who regard marrying a woman as a means of selling women and getting rich will ask for exorbitant bride price, car and house regardless of the actual situation, because they only care about money and don't care about rationality.