In life, we all like people with good temper. No matter what you say, this kind of person will never argue with you or get angry with you, making you feel as if he will never lose his temper. However, everyone has a temper. Where are the people who have no temper? Generally speaking, there are two reasons why he didn't lose his temper. The first reason is that he doesn't know how to lose his temper, and he can only suppress his anger in his own psychology through other channels. The second reason is that this person is very kind to you. Willing to tolerate you, like you and cherish you. However, no matter what the reason, when a person's anger is suppressed to a certain extent, it will erupt sooner or later, and the consequences are unimaginable.

0 1 Take others' kindness to you for granted, and the relationship between two people will deteriorate.

When a person is used to another person's kindness to him, he begins to change slowly. She will take this kindness for granted, which is what you should do. What is even more frightening is that once you are a little bad to her, all your previous goodwill will go up in smoke and become a sentence: How can you do this to me?

Li Yang met TanJing by chance, and it was love at first sight. From then on, Li Yang launched a passionate pursuit of TanJing, sending TanJing to work on time every day. As long as it is Valentine's Day and Christmas holidays, you can always see TanJing receiving small gifts. Under the fierce pursuit of Li Yang, TanJing finally got together with him.

Everyone thought that after two people were together, Li Yang wouldn't treat Tan Jing as well as she did when she was chasing her. After all, he didn't cherish what he got. But everyone is wrong. After two people are together, Li Yang is afraid of Tan Jing in his mouth and afraid in his hand. TanJing is particularly uncomfortable every time she menstruates. Every time Li Yang takes her own brown sugar, Jiang Shui, to the altar sutra. There is not a girl in the unit who doesn't envy TanJing.

Li Yang's economic condition is not good, and his parents are in poor health, but TanJing won't give up. He often buys supplements and sees a doctor for Li Yang's parents. After seeing his girlfriend do this, Li Yang treated her better.

However, Li Yang's increasingly good behavior towards his girlfriend did not get TanJing's. On the contrary, Li Yang and TanJing are like this. When two people get along for a long time, they can often see a scene in which TanJing complains about Li Yang's bad behavior, and Li Yang always bows his head and apologizes. Sometimes TanJing even turns away without giving Li Yang any face. Li only smiled awkwardly at us, and then went after TanJing. Tan Jing took Li Yang's kindness to him for granted more and more, and even found fault with Li Yang's poor performance.

Li Yang left TanJing unexpectedly at the wedding.

Li Yang really loves TanJing. Why do you say that? After learning about Li Yang's family conditions in Tanjing, his parents resolutely opposed it. After all, although his family is not rich, they are well-off. The Yang family was so poor that they even asked Li Yang for a bride price of 200,000 yuan plus a house. This did not make Li Yang flinch. Besides going to work every day, Li Yang has to do several part-time jobs at night. After half a year, Li Yang finally fell ill. TanJing was distressed to see her boyfriend working so hard, but what he said was, "You have only earned half a year. When can we get married? "

Hearing this, Li Yang is a little sad, but comforting TanJing will definitely earn enough.

Li Yang's mother saw her son working so hard and had the cheek to discuss the bride price with TanJing's mother. Unexpectedly, TanJing's mother hurt Li Yang's mother and made Li Yang's mother very angry. TanJing was furious with his mother and went to apologize to Li Yang's mother. Finally, TanJing's mother finally agreed to change the bride price to 65,438+10,000 yuan, and they married and lived with Li Yang's parents. But TanJing's mother has been holding her breath in her heart, and finally let it out at the wedding, but it has also become an irreversible consequence.

On the wedding day, everything went smoothly, but just when the wedding company said it would interview a small video of two people as a blessing, it interviewed TanJing's mother. TanJing's mother felt that it was finally time for her to vent. In front of all relatives and friends present, she even said: "This marriage is really unsatisfactory. I have no choice but to marry a son-in-law who is so poor at home. People say I'm half a son-in-law. There was a sudden silence in the room and no one spoke. But people with self-esteem can't stand it, let alone say it in front of others.

Sure enough, his mother was angry when he heard this and the last bride price. Li Yang suddenly tore off his bra and turned to leave. TanJing to stop him. Unexpectedly, Li Yang said, "Sorry, I can't bear to part with it. If I can bear such humiliation, I don't think my parents will recognize me as a son. I like that you have worked hard for you, but it turns out that we are really not suitable. You'd better find someone who will satisfy your mother. " Say that finish, Li Yang twist a head and went away, let TanJing cry behind, he didn't look back.

At this time, TanJing's mother didn't expect that at ordinary times, in their home, the good-tempered son-in-law dared to leave her daughter, but she was not satisfied with Li Yang, so she naturally broke contact and found another one for her daughter.

In this way, the two men completely broke contact.

Don't challenge others' bottom line just because they have no temper.

From the stories of TanJing and Li Yang, we can see that a person's good temper is limited, and so is his patience. This person is very patient and tolerant of you. In the final analysis, because there are still feelings between two people, he is willing to accept your ridicule and complaints, be your "licking dog" and exchange his dignity for the feelings of two people.

But when a person's patience is polished, it is hurt again and again by the other party. When two people's love fades away, all they get is his outburst. His dignity doesn't allow him to "lick the dog" anymore. Although he is in pain and still has feelings for each other, he won't come back?