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Do you know the modern wedding customs in China?
Nowadays, the wedding forms are more and more diversified, and people have more and more wedding choices. Many people hold pure Chinese weddings, and some hold western-style weddings. Modern weddings that combine Chinese and western styles are also loved by new people. So, what marriage customs do modern people follow? The following are the modern Chinese wedding customs recommended by Henry's wedding, hoping to help you:
1, gift:
According to the general custom, everyone attending the wedding reception should prepare a small gift, wrap it in red paper or specially print the word double happiness, and put in the appropriate gift. The amount of the gift depends on the guest's financial situation and the relationship with the bride and groom, but it is best to take even numbers, including "Lu" six, "Fa" eight and "grow old together" one.
2. Sit down:
When attending a wedding, you should sit down according to the host or the host's guidance. If there is no guidance, you can sit with familiar relatives and friends, but be careful not to take the initiative to sit at the "new table" or "parents table". It is polite to take food and eat while eating.
3. Toast:
When the bride and groom came to each table to make a toast and thank them, everyone stood up and raised their glasses, first gently clinking glasses with the couple, and then saying "Congratulations". Don't get the bride and groom drunk, don't ramble, and control the time for the newlyweds to propose a toast at each table within 3 minutes, so that they can finish the banquet smoothly and enter the bridal chamber in advance. At the same time, don't make a hullabaloo about at the banquet, and drink moderately to avoid being rude after being drunk.
4. Sprinkle confetti:
At the wedding, people laughed and threw colorful confetti into the sky, to the bride and groom, and to the guests who came to congratulate. This custom originated in Italy. In the Middle Ages, anyone who attended an Italian wedding would sprinkle a handful of colorful candy on the couple and wish them a sweet life. /kloc-in the 0 th and 9 th centuries, people changed to sprinkle colored confetti instead of candy.
5. Eat jiaozi:
Before getting married, the bride should eat glutinous rice balls with her parents, brothers and girlfriends to show her farewell. Mother feeds her daughter dumplings, and the bride cries.
6. Cute:
After meeting the bride's family, the groom will hold a bouquet in the room for the bride to get married. At this time, the bride's girlfriend should deliberately stop the groom, but the condition is that the groom agrees, usually with a red envelope gift.
7. Farewell:
The bride should say goodbye to her parents while the groom just bows.
8. Go out:
The bride should be escorted on the limousine by a female elder with a bamboo plaque or a black umbrella, because the bride can't see the sunshine overhead, and the other party also hopes to live a happy life like this female elder. (Note: Prepare a bamboo plaque and paste a happy word on it)
9. limousine:
Bamboo plaques can be placed on the back cover of luxury cars.
10, fan worship:
Before the bride got on the limousine, an auspicious little boy held a fan (put it on a tea tray) for the bride, and the bride returned a red envelope to express her gratitude. (Note: Prepare a fan and bring two small red envelopes)
1 1, never say goodbye:
When you leave the woman's house, never say goodbye to her family.
12, fan vote:
After the car starts, the bride will throw the fan out of the window to show that she will not bring her bad temper to her husband's house. The little boy will pick up a fan and give it to her family. They will give her a red envelope to thank her.
13, combustion gun:
The limousine left the woman's house to set off firecrackers.
14, touch orange:
When the limousine arrived at the man's house, a child with two oranges greeted the couple. The bride should gently touch the orange and then thank the red envelope.
15, leading the bride:
When the bride gets off the bus, a lucky elder of the man will hold a bamboo plaque on her head and help her into the hall.
16, avoid stepping on the threshold:
Cross the threshold
17, into the bridal chamber:
The couple took the groom's trousers and sat on the bench together in advance, saying that they both wanted to have a boy in the future. No man is allowed into the bridal chamber. (Choose the time to enter the bridal chamber)
18, avoid sitting on the new bed:
On the wedding day, no one can sit in the new bed, and the bride can't lie down, so as not to be ill in bed all the year round. In addition, after going to bed, you should find an underage boy to sleep in bed with the groom on the eve of your wedding.