Women are emotional and men are rational. The most important thing is to live. What are you doing with him? What must you do because of marriage? Some rich men will make the wedding very glorious, and the woman will be very happy, but in the long run, you are together for life, not just to get married! There are still many naked marriages. Why can they get married for what? To put it bluntly, it is pride. The most important thing is that you get married together. Why bother with such details? Sooner or later, the wedding will become a memory in memory. No matter how beautiful it is, it can't be brought into real life! Meet each other half way. After all, your husband is almost 40. What he values more is the real thing! This is the most real!