1, the day before the wedding, it is not appropriate for men and women to meet, so it is not appropriate for the woman to send the bride's immediate adult relatives with her when giving the dowry.

2. The woman should send a close relative boy (usually the bride's brother or the close relative's brother) with the key to the dowry box. Now it is generally called "dowry" as long as you go with her.

3. All dowry items and all kinds of vehicles and tools used to send dowry are made of red silk to show good luck.

4. The number of dowry givers and cars should be even.

The man must like cigarettes, candy and money for dowry. For a boy with a dowry, the money should be more.

6. Avoid beds, pots and clocks.

7. Items that the bride and groom can use, such as bedding, washbasin, mirror, teacup, pillow towel, chair and stool, vase, etc. , should be an even number.

Second, what dowry should my daughter prepare for marriage?

(a) the bride's dress

1, a wedding dress;

2, small dresses;

3. Two pairs of shoes;

4, a set of clothes;

5, a number of jewelry.

(2) What did the bride bring on her wedding day?

2 sets of bedding, 2 pairs of slippers, 2 sets of pajamas, 2 pairs of socks, 2 sets of underwear (for both men and women), 2 cups for brushing teeth, 2 toothpaste 1, 2 shampoo and conditioner for shower gel, 2 red washbasins, 2 red buckets with covers, red tub 1 for children, 2 towels and 2 bath towels, which are in the cosmetic box.

(3) Kitchen utensils

1, household appliances: generally, there are two kinds of air conditioners and televisions. Refrigerator, washing machine.

2. Small household appliances: a set of rice cookers, tableware (above 100, 80-90, 50-60), two boxes of chopsticks, two thermos bottles, ironing machines and the like can be purchased as required.

(4) Specific standards

1, red bucket, offspring bucket, covered with big red cloth, and there are 8 items in the bucket. They are: safflower, jujube, longan, five red duck eggs, popcorn, a bundle of chopsticks, a pack of toilet paper and a small bundle of cypress branches. The other bucket is full of rice, with red dates and longan on it. Both barrels are covered with cypress branches (small bundles), scarlet letters and red cloth.

2. Red washbasin. A red plastic basin contains a pair of shoes, socks and a hat that the bride bought for her grandparents. Socks, 3 peanuts and 2 sweets should be put in the shoes. In another pot, there is a health scale and a pot of evergreen with seeds; Put some red dates, longan and cypress branches in both pots (small bundles). Cover it with the red word "hi".

3. Prepare 2 sets of bedding. A set to take to your in-laws' home: red ancient quilt 1 piece, pillow 1 pair. A set of bedding consists of the following four parts: (1) 1 piece of traditional red quilt and green dragon and phoenix quilt; (2) 3 beds of bedding and 3 beds of quilts (down, wool and silk, each1); (3) 2 pillows and 1 double pillow; (4) A set of red bedding for making the bed;

4, sugar cans: this is also a pair, put some sugar inside, meaning sweet.

5. Red box: This is the bottom of the legendary wardrobe.

(5) Happy candy

List of married women's chaperones-Other bedding not used for making the bed

The man prepares candy and gives it to the woman in exchange for red eggs, three children's Chinese chest covers, shoes and socks, and official hats (you can buy a cap if you want a brim)1; The number of Chinese-style chest covers for children is determined according to the male family algebra.