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Before the wedding, he told me that he was in love with another woman.
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The reading guide seems a bit off topic, but it is not. The author just wants to reveal why men like young women through Xiaoli's emotional entanglements, find the essential difference between unmarried young women and young women, and tell you how to learn nutrients from young women and protect the men around you.

Xiaoli dictated: Li Rui and I are college classmates. Although we established our love relationship at the end of our senior year, the four years of college have made us know each other deeply, so our parents met soon after graduation. As we are two ordinary families, the first thing to be solved after graduation is the problem of eating. The wedding must be postponed, that is, we got the marriage certificate in advance, so we postponed the wedding for half a year.

Just when everyone around us was optimistic about the couple, and even we thought it was only a matter of time, Li Rui said to me seriously, "Xiaoli, we can't get married because I fell in love with another woman." Li Rui standing in front of me at this time makes me feel very strange. I think I know Li Rui. Nearly six years of contact turned out to be such an ending. What puzzles me is that she fell in love with a young woman. So what kind of woman is this?

At the beginning of the year, her husband's company made a personnel adjustment. In this adjustment, Li Rui also became a small supervisor through competition. In fact, at best, the team leader is in charge of more than a dozen people. However, it was Roland, whose boss parachuted in from abroad. I met her. This is a woman in her thirties, a top-notch beautiful young woman. It stands to reason that women will be hostile to women, but I feel different after seeing Roland, because she is too feminine and has an excellent figure, especially the cleavage with three dimensions squeezed out from her chest. Full of murder weapons will make many men dream, and the mature charm deeply attracts me. Not only men can't help but have desires, but even women like me have to say that this is a gourmet woman. Li Rui said frankly: "Roland, this kind of woman fascinates me!" "

Roland exudes the wonderful charm of a mature young woman. It doesn't need to be beautiful and full of lethality. If "charming" is used to describe her, I think that is the most appropriate. I realized why Li Rui likes this little woman, because I am fundamentally different from her. This difference is not because of her figure or anything, but because of the maturity of those young women, which unmarried women can never have. Compared with mature and feminine Roland, I am young and energetic and have no advantage.

I began to think, why can a young woman make a man so reluctant to go? The biggest reason is that she is more elegant than girls. This elegance requires a period of marriage tempering and emotional experience. Only such a woman is complete and perfect. A woman who can attract men's attention must have many things that girls don't have. Girls have youthful vitality, while young women exude a mature femininity, which is a kind of beauty from the inside out. She is like a flower that is not very beautiful, but its fragrance is so attractive that you can't stop. This kind of beauty is men's favorite.

In fact, I already know from Roland that the young woman is a woman who has experienced many things in her life. They go from ignorant girls to wives. It is this role change that makes men almost crazy about those young women. Maybe Li Rui is in love with that woman's temperament and charm. Sometimes, as a man, you may be able to control the temptation of young girls, but at some point you can't control the temptation of young women. Although nothing has happened, men will have fantasies, which shows how destructive young women are. The temptation of young women who have experienced the baptism of wind and rain comes from the heart, and there is a natural beauty that makes men feel uncontrollable. This is the biggest difference between them and young girls. The reason why men can't control it is because that kind of hairdressing is from the inside out, obvious, superficial and in one go. This is also the biggest difference between them and girls, and it is the most real place to attract men. ?

In recent years, whether married or unmarried, men seem to prefer young women around 30. No matter at work or in life, we see that many men like to surround themselves with some young women and even ignore those young girls around them. I think the biggest reason is physical attraction. When a woman enters marriage, especially after giving birth to a child, her body will undergo another development, which will make her plump and add a little more amorous feelings because of fullness. Young girls are too thin, and the popularity of thinness has turned many girls into dry wooden poles, while married women will lose weight for slim figure, but the exquisite curves are better. After all, men will still prefer sexy women.

Another reason why young women can attract men is that they are no longer simply shy. Unmarried girls, because of their simplicity, will be more cautious when interacting with men and pay great attention to protecting their bodies from infringement. And young women, because of their familiarity with men's bodies, are no longer too sensitive to physical contact between men and women. Therefore, when many men are in contact with young women, occasional small moves will not be called hooligans. Even some women are obviously more open after marriage, that is to say, with young women, men feel more free in their language of action. Of course, they know when men need comfort, encouragement, praise and blow. They can always give the most appropriate expression at the most appropriate time. This kind of understanding is naturally more popular with men. Because many men are naive even when they are old, young women will soon be able to position themselves as wives, sisters and mothers.

In contrast, unmarried girls, because of self-esteem, tend to be coaxed by men, and they have to lose their temper and shed some tears. Of course, when a man is at leisure, a girl's little temper is lovely. However, when men are at a loss, girls' small temper is unbearable. The constant beating of young women in the society makes them know that they are not troublesome to men more often, and even can be a powerful helper for men at some time. They often don't care about gains and losses in their work, are tolerant and generous, and accomplish tasks efficiently. This is much better than many girls. So at work, many men prefer to partner with young women.

The conclusion must be listed as a spectator, and I have guessed the result between Li Rui and me. Not bad! Knowing this, Li Rui and I had a candlelight dinner and ended our relationship. I didn't scold Li Rui for moving on, because we never really talked about love at all. Being together is not formal. At least I didn't go to Li Rui's heart to know him.

I don't treat Roland as a mistress, because she is really excellent. She has always kept her distance from Li Rui and never interfered in our lives. It's just Li Rui's insistence. Maybe Li Rui really needs an understanding woman like Roland to take care of her.

I have nothing to complain about, because we are predestined friends. Everything should be on the bright side. Maybe from now on, maybe I will become a charming woman. Text/leisure