Generally speaking, the betrothal money and bride price are negotiated by the two families ... depending on the family situation and conditions ... there is no certain amount ... and many times these betrothed women will use it to sell their dowry and send it back. ..

The custom ... is similar to the situation in most areas ... to meet relatives in the morning ... to worship women's parents and ancestors ... after meeting that person's parents and ancestors ... the banquet usually starts at 4 or 5 pm ... which may be much earlier than other places. ..

If the woman is a northerner ... if it is big ... it can save the previous procedure ... and go directly to pick up relatives to worship the ancestors of the man's parents ... and then hold a banquet in the afternoon. ..