Marriage is a matter for both parties and needs to be cherished by both parties, but if one of them doesn't know how to cherish it, then divorce becomes a natural thing.
Xiaoli took her husband to a relative's wedding. He should have had a good meal, but he kept winking at Xiaoli. After learning the reason, Xiaoli filed a divorce with her husband. Why is this? Let's look at Xiaoli's story.
From meeting to falling in love. Xiaoli and Xiaoli (Xiaoli's husband) are in free love. They met in college and fell in love at first sight. They are in love. The two are also very loving in the process of love. Although Xiao Li is a little male chauvinist, he has always liked Xiao Li. But how can people have no shortcomings? So Xiaoli can understand him.
As time went on, both of them reached marriageable age, and their parents got together to discuss matters related to the wedding. But that's when the contradiction began.
The family estrangement and thoughts of both sides are the root of the contradiction. Xiao Li is the only child in the family. His family is superior and his parents have decent jobs. However, Xiaoli's family is the most common one in the countryside. Both parents are farmers, and she barely supports her family with the construction team.
When parents are together, the obvious gap is obvious. Although Xiao Li's parents don't talk about it, they can already see the reason from their attitude.
Because Xiaoli's parents are farmers, she is very honest. In the face of the wedding, everything listens to Xiaoli. After all, her family's economy is not good. If she asks too much, she is afraid that Xiaoli will be bullied there. So everything about marriage is based on the opinions of Xiao Li's parents.
Xiaoli has no opinion because she thinks that marriage is between them, as long as Xiaoli loves him enough.
The wedding was held as scheduled, and Xiaoli and Xiao Li also entered the marriage hall. Their married life is also relatively happy, although there are some shortcomings, but it is not unbearable.
After marriage, due to homesickness, Xiaoli often goes back to visit her parents, but every time Xiaoli invites Xiao Li back, Xiao Li always says it is too dirty and doesn't want to go. Every time Xiaoli returns to her family, her parents will ask her why she didn't come. Xiaoli always tries to smile and pushes it away for various reasons.
After a long period of discrimination, Xiaoli broke out. Xiaoli's brother got married and held a banquet. Although Xiao Li didn't want to go, it was her brother-in-law's top priority, so Xiao Li and Xiao Li returned to Xiao Li's house.
Xiao Li was dressed in casual clothes that day, but he had a good temperament. When he returned to Xiaoli's house, he didn't show any dissatisfaction. He said hello to Xiaoli's relatives. Xiaoli also feels more gratified.
But at the banquet, Xiao Li always winked at Xiao Li. Xiao Li didn't care at first, but Xiao Li winked at Xiao Li from time to time, and Xiao Li went to ask him what was wrong. Xiao Li's next words made Xiao Li have no mood to eat.
Xiao Li said to Xiao Li: Your sister-in-law's clothes are so rustic. Why is your aunt so careless about table manners? Why is your second uncle so savage? Your relatives are really distinctive. All along, Xiao Li has been complaining to Xiao Li about the soil and ugliness of Xiao Li's family, accompanied by his ridicule. But Xiaoli kept her head down and didn't say a word from the beginning to the end of the party.
After returning home, Xiaoli finally couldn't stand quarreling with her husband, but Xiaoli, who has always been a male chauvinist, didn't allow anyone to question him, even Xiaoli.
Xiaoli saw Xiao Li's stubbornness and chose to divorce Xiao Li the next day.
Emotional analysis. Xiao Li and Xiao Li want to divorce because Xiao Li has no respect for his relatives at home and has been talking about family affairs. Although Xiao Li is only talking about Xiao Li's family, for Xiao Li, it is nothing more than talking about himself. In the end, Xiao Li will choose to divorce.
If Li Can Jr. was not so aggressive and looked down on Xiao Li's family, I believe their marriage would be very happy, but how can one's mind change so easily?
I also hope Xiaoli can keep her eyes open when choosing a second marriage and find someone who can really love and appreciate her.
Emotional information. Don't get married easily and don't get divorced easily. For marriage, each of us has the right to choose, but every choice means that you have to pay a corresponding price.
Some decisions, if made wrong, may take you a lifetime to repay.