I have been thinking about how to change, and I have asked many people how to live. Later, my friend said that I had no goal and just listened to my parents' school arrangements all day. How can I have my own ideas and no motivation to move forward? I also summed it up, and what she said is very reasonable. That's true. Many college students are like this now. They sleep in class and play games. Sometimes they think it is meaningless, but they are helpless. So what should they do?
First, set goals and make plans.
Wang Jianlin said, first set yourself a small goal and earn 100 million yuan a day. His small goal is a big goal that many people can't achieve in their lives, but it is a piece of cake for him. Therefore, when making goals, we should make them according to our actual situation and step by step. For example, this month, I will get rid of the habit of staying up late and getting up early. One month is enough time, and sticking to it for one month is victory. Anyway, if you think you want to change in any way, set relevant goals.
It is certainly possible to make a plan, but it cannot be too simple. It's too easy, so there is no difficulty. If it is too difficult, it will be difficult to achieve, and it will easily hurt self-confidence.
Second, do more work.
If you don't make progress, you won't know what you should and can do. Therefore, in order to better stimulate their potential to do things, as long as I do something seriously and enjoy it, I will keep doing it. For example, go out to practice more during college and do some useful part-time jobs. That's my friend. She knows what she wants, so she works as an assistant in a wedding company during the summer vacation. She can learn by herself and earn money by herself.
Third, change yourself.
Change all your bad habits in the past. As long as you feel bad, you must change the opinions put forward by people around you. For example, some bad habits in life, irregular life and disordered work and rest time. There are also some things I said and did myself. As long as I have confidence, I can face external things bravely. I do things, others look comfortable, and I am handy. My social circle has gradually widened, and I won't feel that life is as boring as before.
Of course, I need a lot more. For example, I really want to change my psychological thinking. It's no use talking more if I don't want to.