First, filial piety, love for parents, family harmony and happiness.
After reading the following paragraph, I don't understand how you associate it. Maybe I think it's just ordinary life details that can't be ordinary in ordinary life. However, I think that in today's money-oriented and declining world, Zhao XX, an ordinary housewife, conveys a good atmosphere and positive energy of respecting, loving, respecting and helping the elderly. From the ordinary, we can see a happy family. Respect the elderly and help and love each other. Over the years, she has practiced filial piety with practical actions, confirmed her filial piety, showed a simple and sincere sincere feelings of a rural woman, and interpreted the beautiful image of a rural daughter-in-law who is loving, kind and kind.
She has been living with her parents-in-law since her wedding day. At that time, both parents were over 60 years old and sickly. Zhao xx serves her parents-in-law like my parents. My father-in-law has completely lost his ability to take care of himself because of the late stage of lung cancer, and he has to rely on people to take care of his diet and daily life. Her husband is the village secretary, and the burden of serving her father-in-law falls on her. My father-in-law's leg is swollen in summer, and there is a layer of dense blisters on it. As soon as they fall off, a foul-smelling liquid will flow out. Whenever this happens, Zhao xx will always scrub and medicate the elderly. In winter, in order to prevent the elderly from eating cold rice, he poured half a basin of boiling water from a small basin, put rice and vegetables into the basin and fed them to the elderly bite by bite. In this way, she served the old people enthusiastically and never said a word of bitterness or tiredness. After several years, she had no regrets. In her mind, her husband's mother is her mother, and it is her duty to take care of her in-laws. My father-in-law also has deep feelings for her. He said to everyone:' As long as I can't hear my daughter-in-law's voice and see her shadow for a long time, I feel a little worried, as if someone is missing around me. A good daughter-in-law is better than a good son. "After my father-in-law incontinence. In order not to let her father-in-law feel wronged, she changed his underwear without shyness and washed it with warm water. The pungent smell made her vomit, so she had to put on her father-in-law, wash the clothes, and squat down to turn over her stomach. Neighbors said he was lucky, but his father-in-law said, "My daughter-in-law took good care of him and let me live for a few more years. "
A daughter-in-law's filial piety to her father-in-law is like new clothes on her body. After a long time, relatives and neighbors will see it and be moved by her behavior. The old man basks in the sun in winter and is talking about a good wife. An eighty-year-old neighbor boasted to everyone: "The village is so big and there are so many daughters-in-law. She has never seen such filial piety." After my father-in-law dies, my mother-in-law will not be able to live for a while. Zhao xx is more considerate of her mother-in-law's life, buying food and clothes, and coaxing her like a child. One day in 2008, my mother-in-law accidentally fell and broke her leg. During hospitalization, the burden of caring for the elderly fell on Zhao xx alone. She waited for four days and four nights in front of her mother-in-law's bed, nursing, picking excrement, taking a bath, massaging and working hard, and became her mother-in-law's intensive care. After the mother-in-law was discharged from the hospital, her movements were not as flexible as before. In order to take better care of her mother-in-law, Zhao xx asked her mother-in-law to share a room with her husband and wife. At night, as long as she hears a little noise, she gets up quickly, sometimes several times a night.
Xx town nursing home is located in xx village. In order to let these lonely old people enjoy their old age, Zhao xx set up a volunteer service team, and organized women in the village to visit lonely old people in nursing homes regularly, cleaning and mending clothes for them, chatting with them, helping them seek medical advice and medicine, and sending love and warmth to the hearts of the old people. .
Second, the husband and wife are United and sing polite and progressive songs.
Behind every successful man, there is a woman. Zhao xx has always supported her husband's work, and her husband Xu Dexing is a village cadre at the grassroots level. She has been rated as an excellent party member and an advanced model leader for many times. Seeing that many people in the village still couldn't get rid of poverty, she gave advice to her husband. To run a well-off society, they have to help villagers get rid of poverty and become rich, and be good leaders of farmers to get rid of poverty and become rich. She subscribed to buy as many as 200 books on agricultural science and technology, cultivated the same kind with her husband, and 4 mu of contracted land became a high-yield demonstration field in the village. Helping others is the happiest thing for his couple. They spread scientific and technological farming knowledge to their neighbors and promoted improved varieties, and were affectionately called "experts in farming" and "agronomists" by the villagers. She carefully led more than 20 villagers to raise chickens, and also helped her husband compile a booklet "How to Raise Meat Laying Hens" and distributed it to the villagers to guide the villagers to raise chickens, so that each household earned nearly 10,000 yuan a year.
Third, get rich through hard work and run a well-off society through diligence and thrift.
Zhao xx is a thrifty housekeeper, reasonably arranges family income, and never lavishes money. Buy household goods, wash, buy and burn thrifty, simple and thrifty. I have never worn any famous brands at home, and even furniture such as tables, chairs and sofas are very common wood products, which are not even as good as those of many ordinary people in the village. Even if I go shopping in the city, I can't bear to spend money to buy a car and ride her pedal for three rounds. No matter how late it is, I can't bear to have a meal in the street. Even if I buy a baked wheat cake to go home, I will put it in the hands of my mother-in-law and children. Walking into Zhao xx's home, you will feel that there is a rustic atmosphere of farmers, simple but not chaotic. The goods are placed in an orderly manner and the environment is clean and comfortable.
Fourth, build a harmonious neighborhood and build a new politeness spectrum.
In life, Zhao xx always thinks of others, sets an example, affects the whole village and unites the neighborhood. She gets along well with her relatives and neighbors, treats people sincerely and doesn't care about details. Everyone thinks she is very kind and friendly. Whenever the neighbor encounters an emergency, she will arrive in time and work for free. When it rained, everyone ran home, but she knew whose meal was still drying and needed help to carry it into the house. If someone is short of people to build a house, she will take the initiative to help cook. She always tries her best before and after running. Whenever the nearby villagers are seriously ill, she will visit them in time and lend a helping hand. She will also participate in all public welfare activities organized by the town with her heart.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) Love is precipitated in praise.
A warm family is the source of strength for a harmonious society. Zhao xx advocates the comity of the whole people with his own practical actions, and carries forward the traditional filial piety spirit of the Chinese nation and the traditional virtues of "respecting, loving, supporting and helping the elderly". The affection for the elderly and villagers shows the excellent qualities of an advanced farmer. Her love is from the heart and never floats with material and honor. In the praise of the villagers, she is more simple and simple, and her love slowly sinks deeper. Precipitated in the soul of her late father-in-law, in the heart of her husband who has been with her for more than 20 years, and in the heart of her children who deeply thank her for loving her! In this increasingly noisy world, her love and actions have brought us the spring breeze of a harmonious society and gradually precipitated a lot of love in everyone's heart. Isn't her filial piety to the elderly and enthusiasm for the villagers exactly what our society advocates?
Materials on the deeds of a good wife (2) Tang xx is an ordinary rural woman and an ordinary peasant daughter-in-law. She is a good wife who respects her parents-in-law and teaches her children. Over the years, she has been meticulous, never giving up, and has no regrets. Her filial piety infected the people around her, and her deeds spread all over the surrounding villages. She is Comrade Tang xx, No.29 Daxie Group, xx Village. Like a leafy tree, she silently sends one shade after another to everyone floating under the tree in the hot summer day after day, year after year, without asking for confession or return.
Tang xx was born in August of 1984, an ordinary peasant family in the old 15 groups of xx village in xx township. Her parents are honest, honest and upright, but under the influence of their parents' education, Tang xx has been a sensible, understanding, caring and amiable girl since childhood. In 2009, he married Fang of Daxie Group in xx Village, and they were very loving. My parents-in-law is an out-and-out farmer, simple and enthusiastic. After several months with her parents-in-law, her parents-in-law commented that Tang xx was a smart and wise wife. The family lived happily. Although rural life is not very rich, the family gets along well and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also very harmonious.
This is a very happy family, but something unexpected happened. On 20 10, my mother-in-law suddenly felt unwell and went to the hospital for examination and found that she had cancer. This family is like a bolt from the blue. At that time, Tang xx was seven or eight months pregnant. She didn't give birth at home like ordinary pregnant women, but took care of her seriously ill mother-in-law in the city hospital. Tang xx is seven or eight months old and insists on going to the hospital to take care of her mother-in-law every day. Every morning, I cook for my mother-in-law, feed her water, eat and wash, and do nothing because I am pregnant. I encourage my mother-in-law every day and never complain in front of her. In front of her mother-in-law, she always behaves simply and doesn't frown. At that time, my mother-in-law was in pain all over and couldn't sleep at all. She knows that her mother-in-law is struggling with illness at the moment and needs enough physical strength. She can't control the hard work of paunchy. Every day, she helps her mother-in-law to rub the painful place and gently touch it so that her mother-in-law can fall asleep. After her mother-in-law fell asleep, she went outside the ward and hid her face and cried. Sometimes her husband can't convince her When people in the ward saw such a woman, they all asked her mother-in-law if she was my daughter. Her mother-in-law said she was my daughter-in-law, and everyone else looked at her with incredible eyes. My mother-in-law was also very happy at that time and said to others, "It is better to have a good son than a good daughter-in-law. I am closer to xx than my daughter. "
Under the careful care of such a good daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law finally overcame her illness and was discharged safely. At home, the daughter-in-law still takes care of her mother-in-law as always. Her mother-in-law said to everyone, "A good daughter-in-law is better than a good son." Every time the daughter-in-law mentions herself, she smiles from ear to ear. September 25th, 20 10, is a special day for this big family. Tang xx gave birth to her first child, and her daughter is lovely. Although her mother-in-law's illness made the family more difficult, after seeing such a clever daughter, Tang xx didn't care about anything. It doesn't matter if she is poor, as long as the family is safe and happy. The family life after that is also very happy.
A happy life is short. On June 20 10, my mother-in-law's illness unfortunately recurred. This time, God didn't keep her mother-in-law. At her mother-in-law's funeral, Tang xx cried her eyes out and was very sad. No matter how hard others try, they can't persuade her. Although the mother-in-law has left, there is still a father-in-law at home. Tang xx is also very filial to his father-in-law and gets along well with him.
Taking care of his young daughter and elderly husband, Tang xx has no complaints. For other people's praise, she always said faintly, "I just did my duty as a daughter-in-law, wife and mother." Because she knows how to teach by example, she should educate her children with her own actions. The whole family is also very happy under the management of this sensible and clever daughter-in-law. People say good things often grind people. At the moment, Tang xx is a good man in troubled times. In 20 12, something unfortunate happened to this kind woman, and her father-in-law was hospitalized in a car accident. In the city hospital, she didn't complain why she met so many misfortunes, but told others how strong she was with her own actions. I like to take care of my mother-in-law. I cook and cook soup every day to take care of my father-in-law. My father-in-law always says that it is difficult to find such a good daughter-in-law in this era. Under her careful care, my father-in-law was soon discharged from the hospital.
Tang xx not only takes care of her relatives when they are sick, but also takes care of the elderly at ordinary times. Relatives and friends at home respect her very much. Every time a relative comes to her house, she will take the initiative to buy food and cook, and treat her warmly. She never lets her father-in-law tell her. Although the family is very difficult, she has never contributed to others because of it. There is a younger family in the neighboring group. The husband died unfortunately, leaving only his wife and children. She saw such a poor family, although not rich, but still sent her a gift and sent 200 yuan to that family. This is Tang xx, with a kind heart.
She not only gets along well with her parents-in-law, but also has a good relationship with her children's two aunts (her husband has only two sisters). Every time her aunts come, she always gives a warm welcome and cares nothing. Once, because my mother watched her daughter work hard every day, she caught her daughter a chicken and a duck to make up for herself. As a result, her daughter killed both of them. When others saw it, they asked, "How can you eat it after killing so many people?" She replied: "I asked two girls to come back for dinner, so everyone can eat together." This is Tang xx, an unselfish rural woman.
As a good daughter-in-law, Tang xx has no earth-shattering deeds, no earth-shattering confession, no rhetoric and no publicity. She immersed herself in doing what she thought should be done with the mentality of a typical oriental woman, and deeply printed the word "filial piety" in her dictionary, expressing the simplicity of "filial piety".
Good wife deeds materials (3) Zhou is the deputy chief and accountant of the financial unit of Hongan County Land and Resources Bureau. 197 1 born in February, 1986 joined the work and has been engaged in land and resources management. Over the past 23 years, she has been law-abiding, loyal to her duties, diligent in learning, caring for others everywhere in her life, handling family relations harmoniously and happily, and always insisting on women's due self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement. At work, she is recognized as a good comrade by leaders and comrades. At home, she is a good daughter-in-law recognized by her father-in-law, mother-in-law and husband.
Zhou's husband is a cadre of the county finance bureau. There are many things and miscellaneous things. He runs outside all day. He is a man with strong enterprising spirit. He constantly improves his work and faithfully performs his duties. He works wholeheartedly every day and does well, but he has no time to take care of his family. Heavy housework, children's education and caring for the elderly basically fall on Zhou's shoulders. In order to let her husband work with peace of mind, her life is basically two points and one line. When she is busy at work, she rushes home and does housework. In order to feed her daughter, she gets up early every morning. The first thing she does after getting up is to cook the rice in an electric cooker in case she takes it home. In this regard, my daughter didn't understand it very much and said very grievance: "After other children came home from school, the family sat together to eat delicious food, and I only ate at home alone every day." She replied: "son, mom is busy at the moment. I will definitely accompany you to dinner at home when I am free!" " "
In order to cultivate children's talents, she attaches importance to the ideological education of children's world outlook, outlook on life and values, and teaches children to learn to be a man, learn to do things, and be a person who makes a difference and contributes to society. Because the husband is busy with work, the old man can't help to look after him. Zhou is basically responsible for the management of children's school transportation and life care. The education and management of children is a very difficult thing. Zhou not only pays attention to children's academic performance, but also pays attention to cultivating children's potential for independent living and learning. She is often encouraged to study hard, and at the same time, she should form a good habit of uniting with her classmates and being polite to others. And take the initiative to contact the school teacher to understand the child's growth, the child's academic performance has been among the best in the class, and he has been rated as an excellent student year after year.
The biggest secret that she and her husband can live in harmony is that the communication between them is in place and they often chat openly with each other. When dealing with family affairs, husband and wife can treat each other as equals, communicate with each other and make decisions through consultation, so that both sides have a good mood when doing every major event. They manage their families diligently, arrange their wages and incomes reasonably, and never waste money. Buying household items, educating children to go to school and other trivial matters of life are all borne by Zhou alone, and never let her husband worry. In life, she consciously does not interfere with her husband's daily work, does not interfere with the correct exercise of power in his hands, and does not use her husband's authority and influence to do private affairs and engage in specialization.
Other people's sundays are usually days of rest, eating, drinking and having fun. But Sunday is the busiest day of the seven days of the week. Although she is not idle at ordinary times, it takes a week to wash the clothes of the whole family and two or three weeks to wash the bedding of the elderly, which will take her most of the time. In life, she takes good care of the elderly and gives them the greatest spiritual comfort. My mother-in-law suffers from stomach trouble, and sometimes she is upset, crying and cursing. In this case, the husband will inevitably lose his temper. At this time, she always comforted the old man and advised her husband: "If we are old and the children treat us like this, will you feel better?" In a word, the husband's fire has disappeared, and the old man has stopped making trouble. Every weekend, no matter how busy she is, she will take her husband and children to visit her in-laws, eat together and chat with the elderly. Her husband once said with deep feelings: "It was the daughter-in-law who gave his family warmth and happiness. She paid too much for the family!" And Zhou is always cheerful and deeply gratified. She always said, plain is true. At home, as housewives and eldest daughter-in-law, family prosperity, prosperous people and smooth work are their greatest happiness.
In this "Top Ten Good Daughters-in-law" selection, although all cadres and workers recommended Zhou to participate in the "Top Ten Good Daughters-in-law" selection in the county, she also believes that she also has many shortcomings, and she will work harder to be a "good daughter-in-law" and a "good cadre" in her future work and life.
Good wife deeds materials (4) Zhao Shuzhen, an ordinary rural woman; An ordinary peasant daughter-in-law; She is a good wife who respects her parents-in-law and teaches her children. Over the years, she has been meticulous, never giving up, and has no regrets. Her filial piety infected the people around her, and her deeds spread all over the surrounding villages. She is Comrade Zhao Shuzhen from Dongjizhai Village, Qinling Township.
First, filial piety is broad in tolerance.
Zhao Shuzhen, 1975, is from Mashantou, Qinling Township. Her parents are upright, honest and upright. Although Zhao Shuzhen's education level is not high, she has been a sensible, considerate, caring and amiable girl since she was a child. 1994 married into Dongjizhai Village, Qinling Township, and married Dong Xiaoming, an aspiring young man who is now the secretary of the village branch. Her parents-in-law are also authentic farmers. Simple and passionate. The mother-in-law is cheerful and easy-going, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is harmonious. Although the married family is poor, the husband and wife are harmonious, the family is harmonious and the family is happy. However, happy families are always similar, and each unhappy family has its own misfortune. In recent years, her mother-in-law was bedridden due to illness, which not only cost her a lot of medical expenses, but also changed her mother-in-law from a healthy person to a disabled person who could not take care of herself. Mother-in-law is a quick temper, and it is difficult to accept this cruel reality for a while. She often loses her temper. Zhao Shuzhen see in the eye, anxious in my heart, for fear that her mother-in-law took things too hard and committed suicide. So I stayed with my mother-in-law day and night, earnestly advised her, patiently advised her, and said to her, "All paralyzed people have to live, not to mention that you can walk, and I will wait on you." With the encouragement and persuasion of her daughter-in-law, her mother-in-law gradually got rid of the shadow, established her courage and confidence in life, and embarked on a formal life.
Zhao Shuzhen, as the eldest sister-in-law, hates iron not to produce. She supports her mother-in-law and serves her husband and wife, and never expects her brother to bear it. Zhao Shuzhen embraces the shortcomings of family members with a broad mind, respects the elders with filial piety, cares for the younger generation with love, and manages a poor and incomplete home in harmony and beauty.
Second, filial piety is outstanding in persistence.
Since her mother-in-law became ill, Zhao Shuzhen has been standing by her mother-in-law's side, taking good care of her and never giving up. As the saying goes, there is no dutiful son before a long bed. However, the old woman has a filial daughter-in-law in front of her bed for a long time. At first. Zhao Shuzhen should not only wait on her mother-in-law, but also take part in collective labor. She must get up before dawn, prepare meals for her mother-in-law, and then go to work early. In the evening, she has to tidy up the housework until late at night. She gets up early and gets greedy for the dark, wears a Dai Yue and works hard without complaining. It is inconvenient for my mother-in-law to urinate, so she put a toilet in the corner and cleaned it once a day. Mother-in-law should prepare clothes and bath water for bathing; Eating and drinking Lazar are all arranged. In the past ten years, although Zhao Shuzhen is close to her parents' home, she seldom goes back to her parents' home. When she goes to Tianshui to do business, she has to go home to wait on her mother-in-law, otherwise her heart is not practical. My nephew has a wedding, and she will help the family for a few days. She just took her mother-in-law to her parents' house. After the reform and opening up, two children got married one after another, and the family became increasingly rich. In order to make her mother-in-law feel comfortable, Zhao Shuzhen bought a miniature TV set and put it beside her bed to relieve boredom.
In recent years, due to the lack of family labor, her husband Dong Xiaoming had to be busy with farm work, seeking a way out and planning for the development of the village. Dong Xiaoming, her husband, is sometimes in a bad mood, and her words will conflict with her mother. Zhao Shuzhen advised him that "always being a clown at home, we should be old!" Husband can't laugh and cry, but also secretly envy his wife. It's really annoying! Comrade Lei Feng once said: It is not difficult to do a good deed, but it is difficult to do a good deed all one's life. Comrade Zhao Shuzhen practiced her filial piety with ten years' practical actions, which confirmed her filial piety, showed the broad feelings of a rural woman who respected the old and loved the young, and created a glorious image of a rural daughter-in-law, who was loving, kind and kind.
Thirdly, filial piety radiates light in the eulogy.
Under the careful care of Wang Ai, Zhao Shuzhen had two sons. Under her infection, they all respected and respected their grandmother. Respecting the old and caring for the young has become a family style in this family, which has been passed down from generation to generation and is deeply rooted. Her filial piety and respect for her mother-in-law have been well received by the surrounding people and deeply infected the surrounding villagers. Her deeds were widely sung in the surrounding villages, and everyone was educated, moved, sublimated and learned from them. He vigorously advocated the excellent traditional virtues of respecting, loving and caring for the elderly, and set an example for creating a harmonious family and building a harmonious society.