I think you can pay your salary. After all, you two have lived together for four years, which is equivalent to a very stable relationship. The next step is to consider getting married. There are still many places to spend money when you get married. Boys generally spend money lavishly. If they give it to you for safekeeping, they can save money and plan for the future. If he really intends to marry you, he can give it to you for safekeeping.

Feelings are two people's business. How can one person go to the end when he is a monologue? You must determine what he thinks. After all, after being together for so long, if there is nothing to show, you have to consider the feelings between you. In fact, whether it's boyfriend or girlfriend or husband and wife, when it comes to money, there will be differences more or less. If you want to manage money, you can take time to discuss it with two people.

After all, when two people live together, one person has to take care of the money, so as to save money. Otherwise, they spent a little money, and in the end they suffered. So, be sure to make it clear why you want him to pay. If he is disgusted, don't be angry, ask why he doesn't want to, and then the two of them discuss countermeasures. In the emotional world, the more noisy, the worse. This matter should be discussed.

Of course, if your boyfriend is a good saver, you can also put your income on his side, provided that you two are getting married and your boyfriend has a good personality, otherwise it is better for you two to take care of each other. Anyway, this matter is still discussed with each other, otherwise it is easy to have a big fight.