@ Neven * *

Don't do the back door banquet, pay for it yourself, accept the gift yourself, and the place to write the account should be separated from the woman and the man. If the banquet is held through the back door, the money is collected by the woman and the wedding banquet is collected by the man.

@ Smart * *

We accept each other's gifts here, no matter which party holds the wedding reception. Because human feelings are to be returned, or guests from all directions have come to return the favor.

@ My Home * *

If they do it together, it is suggested that the woman pay the money according to the proportion of the man and the woman's guests, and the gift money is collected separately, at least roughly separately.

@ sizzling * *

If they are close friends and colleagues, they will give gifts to their parents before the wedding. Anyway, this is what it is here. At the wedding, we can only receive red envelopes from people invited by the newlyweds themselves.

@ Don't leave * *

See who pays for the party. Except for classmates and friends, they are all for parents, and they will return the favor in the future. My husband's side is also the same, except for friends, they are given to my parents.

@ Think of * *

Parents pay for the banquet, and the gift money is naturally given to parents. They will repay you in the future. I don't confiscate my classmates and friends at all. Some close friends are gifts, and I will give them gifts when they get married.

@ Life * *

I got married, because both of them are locals, so the wedding reception was only held once. The money for the party was given by that man. My husband and I received a gift, but neither my in-laws nor my parents asked for it.

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In this way, the gift money will not be contradictory:

1, all for newcomers.

When the economic conditions permit, the average parents will choose to give the gift money directly to the newcomers. Because on the one hand, there is no money, on the other hand, there are a lot of expenses at the wedding, so that after marriage, it will not affect our living expenses!

Step 2 take your own

This should be the most reasonable way. After all, after marriage, every small family has its own contacts. In fact, the recovered gift money will be returned sooner or later, so it is the most convenient way to return the favor in the future, and it can also make parents not bear too much pressure in the future!

3. Average distribution

Sometimes at weddings, it can be confusing. It is because the gifts and money of relatives are not accurately registered, so it is difficult to distribute after marriage. At this time, we can adopt the method of equal distribution, which is only fair!

4, a certain proportion of distribution

If the number of wedding guests varies greatly, they can be allocated according to the approximate proportion of guests. If the man's guests come more, then the man will get more gifts. If there are many guests in the woman's house, then the woman's house will get more gifts.

Step 5 buy large pieces of furniture

If the two families are not very short of money and do not need capital turnover, it is very appropriate to use the money received from the wedding to buy big furniture, home appliances and other things. Because after the wedding, the couple need to form a family together, and the new home must be left behind. Then it is more appropriate to use this money to decorate a new home.