When a man works, he is called engaged, while when a woman works, she is called "Meeting Grandpa". When a friend gives a gift, she writes it in the account book, and when a relative gives a gift, she calls it "Bye", giving it directly to the couple, and then toasting relatives and friends one by one. After I got engaged, I changed my mind and called my parents. The wedding date doesn't have to be on the day of engagement. Whatever, the bride price depends on "three gold and one cigarette". "Three golds" refers to gold rings, necklaces and earrings, and "one cigarette" refers to cars, cars and motorcycles. But now there are also many car owners who accompany the woman on the bus. Actually, it depends on economic conditions. I don't know about the gift money. There are all kinds of dowry. If it is accompanying furniture, it is best for both men and women to negotiate who will buy what, and not to buy too much. If you want to buy too much, you might as well give money. When I got married, my husband's house was ready, so the family would marry the money, mainly because the two sides agreed not to contradict each other. After all, marriage is a good thing. Congratulations first! By the way, as a mother-in-law, be prepared to "wear flowers." When the bride comes, she will give her mother-in-law flowers, and her mother-in-law will also give money. Bring flowers when you come in, and give money when you wear flowers. When the best man picks up the bride, he will prepare coins of 1 cent or a few cents and throw them when crossing the bridge. See you.