First, it depends on the age, identity and status of the recipient; Second, it depends on the giver's own situation and his relationship and feelings with the giver; Third, it depends on the occasion and timing of giving gifts; Fourth, it depends on the financial strength of the giver-even if the recipient is happy, as far as the giver is concerned, the pleasure of pleasing the other party may be greatly reduced. 1. If you send some local products to each other, you can say that they are from your hometown. Give some to each other to taste. There are not many things. Please let him accept them. Generally speaking, if the recipient refuses to return the gift because of his kindness, it is estimated that he will relax and accept your gift. 2. If you say that you sent the other person wine or something, don't talk about the word "send". It can be said that someone sent you two bottles of wine to have a drink with the other party and asked him to prepare the order. Drink one bottle and get one bottle, and the relationship will be closer, and the gift will be sent. Wouldn't it be wonderful not to show traces? Take advantage of the trend, you want to give a gift to someone, but you have nothing to do with the other person, and it is not good to send it directly. You might as well choose the birthday and wedding of the recipient and invite several acquaintances to send gifts to congratulate him. The average recipient will not refuse. When it is known afterwards that this kindness comes from you, it will inevitably change his view of you. With the help of everyone's strength, it is the best policy to achieve the purpose of giving gifts and connecting feelings. I have something to do with Xiao Liu Qu, and I want to send some gifts to clarify it, but I'm afraid Xiao Liu refuses to refute it in person. Lao Zhang's lover and Xiao Liu's object are very familiar, so Lao Zhang thought of his wife's diplomacy and brought gifts for his lover to visit. That's settled. It seems that sometimes a direct attack can achieve more miraculous results than a circuitous drill. If you want to give gifts to people with family difficulties, sometimes they are too proud to accept help easily. Send something, it may be said that it is idle at home, let him take it first, buy it and then return it; If you send money, you can say that you will take some flowers first and return them later. The recipient will think that you are not giving alms, and you will be happy to accept it later. In this way, the purpose of your gift is achieved. 6. icing on the cake a student has always wanted to repay because he has been taken care of by his teacher, but he has never had a chance. One day, he happened to find that the calligraphy and painting embedded in the teacher's mahogany frame was actually a rubbings, which was out of harmony with the elegant furnishings in the room. It happens that his uncle is a well-known calligrapher in China, and he has this calligraphy and painting at hand. The students immediately brought the calligraphy and painting and put them in the border box. The teacher not only didn't object, but also liked it very much. The purpose of giving gifts to students in return has finally been achieved. If you can't "send charcoal in the snow", "icing on the cake" is also a good policy. 7. The same result, sometimes you don't have to pay for gifts yourself, and then you can send big bags and small bags. In fact, sometimes, human feelings are also a gift. For example, you can buy things exported to the domestic market through some relationships, ex-factory price, wholesale price or preferential price. When you buy these things for your friends and colleagues, they have accepted your "kindness" as a gift at the same time. I didn't spend a penny, just put in a little goodwill and effort, and the effect was as good as a gift. The recipient spends money because of communication, and feels at ease when receiving things, without any worries; People who send "love" are unprofitable and enjoy themselves.