In recent years in college, there are really few students who have the same topic with me.
Students like watching all kinds of TV dramas, variety shows, Korean dramas and listening to pop music. Girls like anthomaniac, but I don't listen to Mandarin pop music, have no QQ space, don't write about it, and don't play Weibo. I reject buzzwords among my peers and am not interested in things that my peers should be interested in. I think these are all childish.
My daily entertainment is to watch American and English dramas for a while and listen to BBC every day? Channel 4? Watch it with former high school classmates? Write a summary of news at home and abroad for a while, and then go to the forum of fresh graduates to see the experience of brothers and sisters looking for jobs.
My roommate laughed at me for being an exterminator and thought I was too rational.
I wonder from time to time if there is something wrong with me. After that day, Maruko helped me find my own kind.
Xiaoshi, male, 25 years old, hotel management.
I can't talk to my peers. Maybe it has something to do with my family. My parents divorced when I was about 8 years old. After my father divorced, I went back to my hometown in Chengdu to form a new family and had a younger brother. My mother soon went to Taiwan Province Province, married a native of Taiwan Province Province, worked as an education teacher at school, and later had a younger sister.
Because my parents have their own families, I don't see them many times a year, and almost all of them grew up in my grandmother's house. Because she is responsible for all my things, my mother pays the fees regularly, but the work is also very hard, so I am sensible earlier.
When I grow up and understand, there will always be some psychological burden. I feel that grandma and mom are particularly difficult, so I began to work part-time outside when I was just an undergraduate. I feel so busy that I have no time to communicate with my roommates.
I didn't like many things they liked at that time, such as game stars, or I didn't have much energy to like them. It may be that I care too much about my studies and part-time jobs. Being a wedding host and etiquette industry also makes people mature and sensible quickly.
The time spent playing and communicating with peers is almost zero, and naturally I can't play with them over time.
But now that I'm working, I feel that I still have a lot to talk about with my colleagues of the same age.
Summer, female, 20 years old, student.
I have always felt that my classmates' aesthetic taste is too naive, and this mountain directly caused the gap between me and my peers. In my opinion, their aesthetic style is still in high school, and we are sophomore.
And we are English flight attendants. Usually there are etiquette classes, and professional teachers teach us how to dress up and how to match colors. What a good learning opportunity. I don't understand why most female students still match clothes like high school students.
So the main reason why I can't talk to my peers is that they don't pay attention to what I care about, and I don't like what they like, so we can't talk over time, or we don't understand each other's behavior.
In a school exchange, some students were arranged to go to Japan. After that, many people bought dolls like Minions. Only my other sister and I mainly bought masks, cosmeceuticals, massage creams or other small beauty items, showing the difference.
Slowly, I found this phenomenon more and more obvious, and now there is nothing to talk to my peers. I have noticed their concerns, especially in dressing. Maybe I really belong to the slightly sensitive and advanced category.
Sisi, female, 22 years old, a student.
Growing up, there were not many peers in my environment, so it was normal not to talk. I/kloc-was admitted to Zhejiang university at the age of 0/6, which is a kind of young college students, so my classmates from primary school to now are two or three years older than me on average.
At that time, watching cartoons was the normal age. I can't stand the childishness of my peers watching cartoons. Over time, I automatically avoid having close communication and exchanges with my peers.
Maybe it's not that I can't talk to my peers, but that my peers can't talk to me!
Researcher Pan Pan.
In fact, I have tried to integrate into my peers' hobbies, but I find it really difficult to force myself to do it. Photos or videos that make them laugh don't work for me at all. Sometimes I feel disgusted and despised when I see my classmates' chat style in QQ group.
Maybe it's because I'm lazy, the fixed circles around me rarely change, and many things become stubborn once they are formed. Maybe it's because the world I've seen is not big enough and the endurance is not strong enough, so it's hard to put yourself in my shoes to understand something that I think is not "correct" enough.
Today, I found that everyone is the same. Everyone has his own youth and blood, but the blood is divided into different parts and placed in different foods and fields.
In fact, there is nothing I can't say. I should be the most naive one.