Personally, marriage is the most important moment for every woman. Although the wedding is a formality, it can also reflect whether a man works hard for you. In a word, I think weddings are indispensable. As a girl, I have fantasized about my wedding scene since I was a child, and I believe every girl has fantasized about it. I don't ask my boyfriend to give himself a grand wedding like the president on TV and in novels, but this form is necessary in my heart.

Maybe your boyfriend's family condition is not very good, but his unwillingness to hold a wedding is his reason. Everyone has his own difficulties. There is nothing wrong with this sentence. We really need to understand and think about our boyfriend, but if he really doesn't want to have a wedding, that's his problem. I think you should fight for it. If you want a wedding, don't compromise because of family circumstances.

Even if you have no money, you can have a wedding. Although it will be a little shabby, it is better than nothing. This has risen to the issue of attitude. My sister and my brother-in-law are a good example. My brother-in-law's family conditions are not as good as my sister's, and his father is ill. He may not live for a few years, and his family situation is very bad. But when two people are together, they will definitely get married. My brother-in-law also promised to hold a wedding for my sister.

My brother-in-law also told my sister that the wedding might not be very grand, which seemed a bit shabby, but I would try my best to make the wedding satisfactory to my sister and her family, so it was no reason not to have no money. This is a question of attitude. Why are others willing to pay, but you are not willing? If you have no money, you can do something ordinary, eat something homely and wear something cheap.

It is really impossible for two people to work together. * * * It is ok to use money to complete your imagination of the wedding. One of my seniors, who got married in Fengzikai, was full of fantasies about her wedding, but her boyfriend broke her imagination and refused to hold a wedding, so when my senior was seven months pregnant, she was with another girl. Although not all boys will be as scum as my senior's boyfriend, such a thing did happen.

Maybe your boyfriend is such a person, maybe not, but this attitude can already show that he doesn't particularly love you, or he may be selfish, because he only considers his own financial situation and doesn't consider your mood. He can still make money after spending it, but some things will not mean what they used to mean in the future, and I don't know if I can make up for it.

So to sum up, my personal opinion is that you should fight for it, find out why your boyfriend doesn't want to have a wedding with you, and pay attention to his attitude towards it. As long as it is because of money, I think it can be solved. You can discuss with him not to have a grand wedding, as long as it is sincere. If he has a firm attitude or other unusual behavior, you also need to guard against it. In case he thinks you're not suitable for being direct at this point.