My husband is an only child, and I am an only child, but my husband's family conditions are not good. I heard that my father-in-law lost money in the factory he ran in those years and sold everything at home. Later, he rented a house. At first, they rented a one-bedroom apartment. Later, my husband went to work and helped them change a two-bedroom house. The environment was not bad. My husband, on the other hand, has been living and eating in the company.
My father-in-law is guarding the door near the rental house. There are 2000 yuan a month, and this 2000 yuan is their living expenses. As for my mother-in-law, she does nothing at home every day, either going out for a walk or playing cards. Her father-in-law pays her wages, and if she doesn't have enough money, she asks her husband for it. She never considered her son's future marriage.
My husband and I are colleagues. He told me about his family when we were in love. I told him: it doesn't matter. If your family can't afford a house, we'll rent it and wait until we have enough money to buy it. When I said this, my husband hugged me tightly.
Soon, we will get married. Needless to say, there is no bride price. What about the dowry? My mother gave me 0.2 million/200 thousand as a dowry, and I refused. Since there is no bride price, there is no need to marry my family. Although the mother-in-law was a little unhappy, she didn't say anything. She knows she doesn't care. Although there is no dowry, my mother-in-law can get 200 thousand from my mother as a bride price. My family is very rich, very rich, so she hit on my idea.
The wedding was held because there were few people in the in-laws family, so it was organized by our family. Of course, we calculate the in-laws' gifts separately, and the banquets and weddings are all paid by my parents. And my mother-in-law, judging from the scale of this wedding, came to the conclusion that my parents are rich.
After my husband and I got married, we rented a house, which was also a small two-bedroom apartment. We agreed to save money to buy a house together in the future. I didn't expect my mother-in-law to return the house they rented and have to squeeze in with us. I really don't understand: we are close and everything is convenient. Why do we live together? My mother-in-law only said two words: save money!
They are moving here, and I can't say they won't, so the four of us live under the same roof.
As soon as my mother-in-law moved in, she began to ask me how much money my husband and I had saved. I told her without much thought. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law said, you should use this money to buy a house quickly, or the house price will go up. Buy a house early, work harder now and enjoy it later!
We understand what my mother-in-law said, but we can't even afford the down payment. How can I buy a house? I thought my mother-in-law dared to say this because she was rich, so I asked her if she was rich and wanted to help us. I didn't expect her to say, I don't have money. I just wish I didn't ask my son for it. Your parents do. You are their precious daughter. As soon as you ask, they will definitely buy you a house!
It turns out that I was attracted by the money in my parents' hands, which explains why my mother-in-law insisted on moving in and buying a house. It was my parents' idea!
I didn't answer my mother-in-law's words, so I chose to laugh it off. Then, I told my mother about it. My mother said, daughter, your mother-in-law is right. There is a lot of room for appreciation in buying a house now. You have no money for your mother, but you must write your mother's name on the house!
I smiled and agreed.
The house was bought and decorated by my parents, and the name on the property certificate was also my parents'. My in-laws are happy to be my husband's house and mine, so they ask to move in. I took out the real estate license and showed it to my mother-in-law, who went back to the rented small house despondently.
At first, I was stubborn. My parents spoiled me. I said to rent a house, and they let me rent it. I said buy a house, and they paid for it. I suspect that I am spoiled by them, so I can do whatever I want now. Otherwise, whose parents are willing to marry my daughter to someone who can't afford a house?
Mother-in-law's personality analysis: insatiable and far-sighted, I want the woman's family to pay for a house and let me live. As a result, my wishful thinking was empty. Such a person is selfish, only knowing pleasure, but not paying.
Parental personality analysis: spoiled daughter, spoiled daughter, daughter's requirements have been met, but it is good to have a reasonable daughter, otherwise the family will be ruined.
Husband's personality analysis: spoil, love and respect his wife, but his financial ability is not very good, so he has to rely on her family.
My personality analysis: children who are spoiled by their parents but not spoiled still have their own ideas in their hearts.