Four jingles of Chaoshan wedding
1. New bed silver bead oil,
New quilt, new silk,
The bride and groom have a good relationship,
Sing together when you are free.
2. When the bride and groom get married,
Everything won, everything went well,
The troops made contributions,
Be promoted to general in the future
May you two be friendly and in love.
Wedding blessing of Chaoshan people
1. May you two be kind and love each other, and your love will never change and increase day by day!
Let this lingering poem ring the bell of happiness. I wish you happiness and love you forever.
3, a thousand years old, a hundred years with a hundred years of sleep. Born with both talents and looks, he only envies Yuanyang but not immortals.
May the joyful song accompany you forever, and may your marriage life be full of joy and happiness, and you will be bathed in endless happy years.
5, cross the boat for ten years, sleep with the pillow for a hundred years. Finding her in the vast sea of people is clearly the fate of thousands of years ago. I wish you both happiness and harmony.
6. At this moment of celebration and blessing, may God guide your marriage, like a river flowing into the sea, into one, not two, endless and endless!
7. Send the most sincere wishes to you who are newly married: May love, mood, life and career be sweet. Never leave!
8. May you be the wind with white sails; I hope you are a boat, breaking the blue waves. Life smiles in front of you, take a brave step forward and embrace colorful life.
9. Ten years by boat, a hundred years by pillow. Finding her in the vast sea of people is clearly the fate of thousands of years ago. I wish you both happiness and harmony.
10, marriage is established by God, and a happy marriage is blessed by God; May our God give you and your family all the blessings in the sky, the blessings hidden underground, and the blessings of childbirth and breastfeeding!
1 1, there is only one miracle in your life. When your dream comes true, your whole world suddenly becomes beautiful and novel. I wish you happiness forever!
12, cherish this love, such as cherishing treasures, and gently walk into this emotional palace to feel the wonderful time of every moment.
13. In this spring day, you two will always be friends. As the saying goes, a couple is made in heaven! I wish you both love each other and grow old together!
14, I wish you a hundred years of unity and happiness forever! Happy wedding, sweet and sweet!
Chaoshan wedding customs and etiquette
1, get married
When we met and talked, we got to know each other. Both sides thought we could be partners. The matchmaker took the woman's birthdates and gave it to the man. It was called an invitation. The man put Geng Tie in front of Si Mingjun's throne, if there are no ominous signs at home within three days (such as breaking rice bowls and pots). ), it will be fine in a few days. Then they exchanged jobs with each other. Ask the fortune teller for a blind date, thinking that the next step can be taken.
Step 2 look at the family style
When we met and talked, we got to know each other. Both sides thought we could be partners. The matchmaker took the woman's birthdates and gave it to the man. It was called an invitation. The man put Geng Tie in front of Si Mingjun's throne, if there are no ominous signs at home within three days (such as breaking rice bowls and pots). ), it will be fine in a few days. Then they exchanged jobs with each other. Ask the fortune teller for a blind date, thinking that the next step can be taken.
3. Employment and re-employment
After the preliminary decision of marriage, the woman will be employed, and the employment form should be folded into twelve editions with red paper. Bride gifts include cash, sugar, jewelry, clothes and so on. After the man receives the employment order, he can reduce it as appropriate, but generally he does not reduce sugar. Because sugar is for the woman and for relatives and friends. The engagement fee can be reduced. Reduce employment? . Now it is generally written that the engagement fee is included. In the reply, the man can also specify what gift he wants the woman to give, that is, add the word (Zuomu Yousheng) at the end of the bride price, and write the following items, such as X double contract and X double blessing cake. The matchmaker will send the employment form back to the woman until there is no disagreement between the two sides. The engagement fee doesn't need X hundred as an integer, because dialect? Hundred debts? Bad luck. Add a few numbers after one hundred. Chaoshan people should have a double mantissa, such as four or eight. Because the four are homophonic with the world, it is said that the world is good. Hakka people use nine, nine and long homonyms, which are called long and long.
4. Determination (Wen Ding)
After the engagement ceremony is agreed, the man will choose the date according to the date of both men and women to carry out the engagement ceremony, which is called "fixing" On the same day, the man made a cone-shaped sphere out of brown sugar, called sugar mother. Because sugar is homophonic, it means that sugar mom passed it on to her grandchildren. Some people use white sugar instead of sugar mom. Put pomegranate flowers on sugar. Add brown sugar, cash, jewelry and so on. Compose four samples (of which cash and jewelry can be used to pay employment expenses). The woman came back with two sugar bags, usually wine cakes and sugar. Take its symbolic yeast and ferment Chang Rong. After receiving the candy, the woman distributed it to her relatives and neighbors to tell them the good news. After the date is fixed, the man decides to have a facelift, get a haircut, get married for his birthday and send it to his wife's house. This is called a day off.
5. Dispatch and reemployment
On the day of engagement, the man sent someone to give the woman a bride price, including bride price money, brocade tea (including reading bag), jewelry, three sacrifices, duck eggs, noodles and so on. And a bottle is essential. The quantity should be one Kyrgyzstan, and Kyrgyzstan and other projects can also be increased. The woman also returned bananas, contracts, pig hearts, bean balls, five seeds, a shrimp grass and spring grass, and taro seeds. There are twelve kinds of red eggs on the handkerchief, rice swill in the hip flask, and the gift money from the reading bag. The man received the gift, cut the pig's heart in half and sent it back to the woman. Husband and wife share a pig heart, which is called concentric liver and lung. Plant spring grass in flowerpots, carefully maintain it, and distribute bananas and contracts to relatives. Get married for about ten days, send bananas, and send invitations when signing the contract. The woman will also invite her in-laws that night. The bride's dowry is generally a basin, a bucket, a chair and a dowry in the room, such as a dresser and a gown cabinet. 2/kloc-0 In the first half of the century, the rich had a dowry called Quanting Mian, which included all the necessities of the bedroom and hall. Such as kang beds, round tables, drum chairs, paired armchairs, suitcases, five buckets (rice bucket, bowl bucket, foot bucket, waist bucket, toilet) dressing tables, gold and silver jewelry, even kitchen tablecloths, and even life boards (coffins) and title deeds in some places. Of course, the engagement fee is much higher. What was the name of Hakka dowry around 1930s? Drinks What wine goes with what dowry. There are different drinks, the lowest one is called? Rooster? The man only needs two Jin of pork, two pots of wine and several pairs of eggs to give to the woman. A higher order? Hey? , the third is called food? Hey? . The fourth is called food? Some? , the highest realm is called food? (Yousheng Zuomu)? . According to different grades, the bride's dowry is also different, of course, there are simple and complex differences. This has become a historical topic and has been gradually simplified.
Step 6 get married