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Meet, get to know each other, know each other, fall in love, and then get married.

When two people's love matures, marriage becomes the most sincere waiting, which means they become a real family. In the future, whether it is rain or calm, they all decide to be together for a lifetime.

From falling in love to deciding to get married, it feels beautiful, and the happy life after marriage is desirable enough, but there is also a procedure for holding a wedding.

Since ancient times, when two people get married, they have to involve two families. Both parents should take care of everything for their children and send sincere wishes.

But the reality is far from being as beautiful as imagined. Love is a matter of two people, and many things are easy to solve. But after the wedding involved two families, the problem came out.

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There are not a few couples who break up because of marriage.

Some people have been wronged at this happy moment.

I once watched the variety show "265438+ 0 days before marriage", which really wronged He Wenna.

He, a former female trampoline athlete in China, is known as the "trampoline princess". She won many gold medals and won the title of Olympic champion.

Such an excellent woman is very wronged when she talks about marriage.

In the program, He's parents and his parents talked about He's wedding after giving birth to a child.

He's parents said they would hold a party, which is their custom there.

Simply put, it is to hold a small banquet, which means that when the daughter gets married, the man should get married decently and invite all the relatives and friends of the woman to attend. Then, I officially held a wedding reception at the man. The woman also has the custom of returning wine, but considering the inconvenience of her daughter after childbirth, she said no.

Objectively speaking, He's parents' arrangement is quite reasonable, but her mother-in-law doesn't want to say that we can't set the wine in the cupboard and the order can't be chaotic. She insists on holding the wedding first, and then talking about going back to the door.

Finally, He was so wronged that he almost cried, but her husband and mother-in-law did not intend to follow the custom of her family.

Among them, the mother-in-law looked serious from beginning to end, so anxious that He Wenna's mother said aggrieved: "I just want to marry my daughter with dignity."

Unfortunately, my mother-in-law and husband still don't give in.

The custom of holding a wedding ceremony may vary from place to place, and both parties can discuss it, but in most cases, it is not wrong for one party to make a slight concession within the scope of principle.

But where did this happen? My mother-in-law was so strong that she completely ignored her family's feelings. He Wen Na was not wronged in this wedding.

Weddings should be treated with caution, because this is the first time for both families to meet. From the attitude of holding a wedding, we can see the face of the other family and our future life.

It is difficult to be happy in a wedding where the bride price is excessively demanded by the woman's family, or the man's family is stingy and doesn't pay, and everything needs to be considered by his in-laws.

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I read a news before that a girl in Xiaoshan, Hangzhou hoped that the wedding car would be Audi A6, but her in-laws thought it would be enough to borrow a few Honda cars.

Originally this matter was discussed by the young couple themselves, and there was not much money to rent a car. They could have done it themselves, but their in-laws insisted on getting involved in the matter and scolded the woman for spending money indiscriminately.

It is not difficult to imagine that married life is worrying.

No matter who is right or wrong in this matter, if the girl compromises and gets married, there are still a lot of problems to deal with after marriage, because her mother-in-law is not a trouble-free person. On the contrary, she should finally take care of everything and blame the spendthrift before marriage. Can she put it down after marriage?

So sometimes whether two people's love can complete a marriage depends on the attitude of both parents.

Whether it is a reasonable husband's family can be seen from the wedding.

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A friend was pregnant before she got married. At that time, she and her husband had a good relationship and discussed Toyoko's marriage.

Agreed bride price100,000, the banquet will be handled separately. I will live with my in-laws after marriage, but in the middle of chores before marriage, my mother-in-law said that she didn't have that much money and only took 70 thousand.

Husband's attitude at that time also echoed his parents', meaning that after marriage, they are all family members, and 70 thousand is not a minority. If parents are not easy, don't embarrass the elderly.

At that time, my friends were bent on a happy marriage, so they didn't care anymore.

But after marriage, my friends found that my mother-in-law was very stingy, and my friends spent all their own money. My mother-in-law is so distressed that she scolds me every day and always says that it is not easy to get 70 thousand bride price money together.

Later, when she gave birth to a child, her mother-in-law actually said that she should deliver the baby at home by herself, and that she was a midwife when she was young to ensure the safety of mother and child.

This frightened my friends so much that I called my mother's family for help during childbirth. In the end, the cost of having a baby was paid by her family.

In other words, after all this, my friends can see their in-laws' faces clearly. As long as they spend money, they always cry for poverty. Her husband always stands on his parents' side, saying that it is not easy for his parents to be afraid of poverty, and then forcing his friends to follow their in-laws.

In such a family, friends who want to buy a walker for their children are blocked from the door. Of course, friends earn money by working on their own, even if they are blocked, they can't stop new mothers from wanting to give their children more love. However, when she bought it herself, her mother-in-law scolded her.

In short, in the eyes of this mother-in-law, even if her daughter-in-law has a job, she still makes money, but her daughter-in-law's money is also her son's money, so even if she can't make her own decisions.

A friend once wrote in a circle of friends that she would never marry such a family if she was given another chance to choose.

The last thing you can buy in this world is regret medicine, so be careful before you get married.

Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families. From the time of preparing for the wedding before marriage, we can see each other's personality and family quality.

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In marriage, the attitude of in-laws is very important.

In-laws are sensible, know how to measure, and will teach their sons, which will make the family better. On the contrary, it will stir up dung sticks, and marriage will be a chicken feather.

The wedding is actually the last test of love, and the future marriage life will also start from this wedding.

The man's attitude towards the wedding reflects his respect and accommodation for the woman.

After marriage, you need this kind of respect and accommodation to build a happy home.

If the woman is wronged in the wedding, it is hard not to be wronged after marriage. On the contrary, if the wedding is happy, the probability of happiness after marriage is greater.

There was a male colleague in the company who was very poor when he married his wife. He doesn't have any savings, so he is torturing his parents.

Later, I pooled my money and was still short of 20,000 yuan. The facts of gay men can't get together, so they borrow money from us.

At that time, some people said that this colleague's wife's family was too unkind, and 20,000 yuan was not allowed, which made him embarrassed. But the male colleague smiled and said, "It's not that people are unkind, but that we can't wronged people and girls."

To tell the truth, he felt quite responsible when he said this. Whether a man will wronged you, the details can be seen.

Later, when I paid back the money, I realized that my male colleague's married life was quite happy, and my husband also invested money to let the young couple start a business.

After all, what really matters is not the wedding and the bride price, but the attitude of both sides towards each other.

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In the woman's request, whether the parents are harsh or not is hidden; The man's preparation before marriage hides whether his parents are sincere or not.

When two families get along for the first time, they can get along happily, and then the whole family will be happy. If they don't get along well, the later days are doomed to be tormented.

If there is a problem in the wedding, it is not necessarily the right choice to stop the loss in time. It can be settled through consultation, which also shows that the problems after marriage can be discussed.

Everything has to start from scratch. I hope everyone in my heart will be happy and unforgettable at the wedding.