1. Respect father before mother: I think it is a traditional and common practice to respect father before mother. Because in the traditional culture of China, your father is usually an important pillar and decision-maker of your family, so respecting your father first is also a way to show your respect and gratitude to your father.
2. Respect your mother before your father: I think it is ok to respect your mother before your father, because mothers are usually the center and link of the family, and their time and energy for the family can not be ignored.
3. Respect parents first: I think the best way is to respect parents first, because they are each other's partners and confidants. They have experienced the ups and downs of life and created a beautiful family together.