In this beautiful mountain city of Chongqing, the humid air keeps people's skin moist for a long time, and gives birth to beautiful Chongqing women, all of whom have fair and delicate skin. Later, some people compared Chongqing women to "small peppers", meaning that Chongqing women are as red and spicy as red peppers in mountain cities. This is the lovely Chongqing mm, but in recent years, with the rise of the buzzword "female man", Chongqing women have another title "Chongqing female man".
In this way, Chongqing women have the titles of "beauty of chongqing", "Chongqing Pepper" and "Chongqing Woman". In the eyes of others, they are beautiful, informal, cheerful and straightforward, provocative and optimistic. Laugh when you are happy and scold when you are unhappy; If the light bulb is broken, change it yourself, and if the faucet is broken, repair it yourself. It is a piece of cake to change the bucket of the water dispenser when encountering cockroaches. Loud, straight, energetic and fearless. Be a woman with Chongqing characteristics.
If you think this is the real Chongqing woman, you are all wet. That must not be all the women in Chongqing. No one is born a woman, no one is born independent, strong and unpretentious, and no one is born with skills.
I can tell you quietly that they are actually a group of delicate women. You don't believe it? Well, I understand that many Chongqing women around you are very tough, not exaggerating at all, but that's them in your eyes, but in their hearts, it may be just the opposite. Let me tell you why.
Wu Zhihong, a psychology teacher, said that the world is opposite, which means that in a person's personality, there are two completely opposite aspects of "good me" and "bad me". For example, if you see a very obvious trait in a person, it means that you also see the opposite of him. For example, what is presented is pungent, and the heart is likely to be quiet and dignified; For example, a tough appearance may correspond to a delicate heart; For example, extroversion, the corresponding heart is introversion; Happiness corresponds to sadness in the heart; Good people are all bad people in their hearts.
Teacher Wu Zhihong thinks:
An extroverted person, in everyone's eyes, is super lively, outgoing and cheerful, but he is completely different from the extroversion you imagined, and he doesn't want to reveal his heart to others. And some people seem introverted, but they especially like to tell their little secrets to others. Sometimes people are extroverted and sometimes they are introverted. There is no extreme introversion and extroversion.
Therefore, the Chongqing woman in your eyes is not necessarily real!
It is reflected in many famous comedians. For example, Shen Dianxia, Chaplin and Mr. Bean all suffered from severe depression. Cui Yongyuan once said that he was a "smile-type depression" because he was a depressive despite his trademark faint smile on his face.
Chinese-style good people are passive, passive and closed while being kind and patient. It is easy for people to give thumbs up and say that they are really good people, but they generally lack intimate friends and often have problems in their interactions with their partners and children. These people who should be closest to each other will stay away from them.
The "good self" and "bad self" in personality coexist in one person, which are two aspects of "external self" and "internal self". However, the "inner self" is hidden in the depths of the subconscious, and it is difficult for others or even themselves to see it.
Chongqing women are not born women, and their hearts are full of tender feelings of little women; Beneath the strong appearance, there lived a weak little princess.
Chongqing women, let's accept all of ourselves, don't abandon and don't hide. Let the "good me" and "bad me" in our bodies live in harmony and live the best of ourselves!
Further reading 1 good me and bad me
Further reading 2 "You can choose A or -A"