I think love is shared by both parties, and marriage is voluntary, so marriage should be completed by both parties and needs money. But it is not absolute, and there are also non-payment. When getting married in the countryside, the bride price is paid by the man's family, which is necessary. This is how everyone gets married. Now the married man's family gives a lot of bride price money, and the woman's family needs to buy home appliances, cabinets, daily necessities and all the dowry money, but even the dowry money is not that much, so now the woman's family gives her daughter the most money to buy a car, saying that her daughter is married and can't give anything, so use the bride price money given by the man's family to buy a car! But in fact, the bride price money given by the man's family is quite a lot, but it is not enough to buy a car, and the woman's family needs to pay for it. In fact, what the woman's family pays is the love of parents for their daughters. They want to marry her as a gesture. This is a sign that parents love their daughters, not for anything else. It's like when I got married, there wasn't so much money for the bride price, let alone buying a car, not even buying home appliances. My father didn't say anything, so he gave me money to buy home appliances. He said that you kept the bride price money for future use, and dad didn't have much money, so he could only buy you some daily necessities, so when I got married, everything was out at home. But now some people don't pay. They will ask their in-laws to buy everything for their marriage, and they will also ask for bride price money, just like selling their daughters. I think marriage is a matter for both parties, and everyone should participate. Why should one party pay so much and do nothing? I think it's normal for women to pay for marriage!