Does the man buy the wedding money or does the woman marry him?
"Three gold for marriage" generally refers to gold rings, bracelets, necklaces, and some also refer to gold earrings, which are basically the above three. In some places, the custom is hardware, but these are usually prepared by the husband's family for the future daughter-in-law, in order to express their love and attention to the daughter-in-law. The hardware material of the wedding gold can be gold, platinum or lottery gold, which is generally considered to be gold. If the number is even, it means that it is lucky to be in pairs. According to the ancient custom, the bride should wear all the wedding hardware on the wedding day, which is said to show her respect for her husband's family. But the customs are different from place to place, so she can dress according to the local customs. It depends on whether her elders listen or not.
This tradition has existed since ancient times. It is only natural to marry a girl and receive a dowry. The preciousness of dowry can also reflect the sincerity of the man and the face of the woman to a certain extent. Through the three gold, we can see that the man attaches importance to the woman, so the three gold in wedding jewelry has become the highlight of the dowry. Therefore, it is usually given at the time of engagement, but not after engagement, which will leave the impression of "no manners" to the older generation.
Why do we have to get married with three golds?
Answer: ① The custom of bride price has a long history and is a traditional custom in China;
In ancient times, women wore gold and silver, which could show their family's financial resources and status;
③ Attention and sincerity to the wedding and the other family;
Many men in the north buy them for women, so it means "trapping their wives", which shows that the man's sincerity can make this life long.
What's so particular about choosing Sanjin?
A: We mainly observe six details.
① Identification: Jewelry on the market will indicate the detection and identification, gold content and weight of relevant quality inspection institutions;
Appearance: the surface of gold jewelry should be smooth, without obvious processing marks and sharp corners, and feel smooth. No air holes, impurities, etc. On the surface. In addition, carefully observe whether there are cracks and avoid buying secondary processing parts;
3 color: The gold content of gold is generally "seven green, eight yellow, nine purple and ten red". For example, if jewelry reaches 70% gold content, the color will be yellow with blue, and if it reaches 90%, it will be yellow with purple;
④ Weight: The specific gravity of gold is generally 19.3g/cm3, and the closer the specific gravity is to 19.3g, the higher its purity is;
⑤ Sound: When the gold with good color falls to the ground, the sound is dull and not brittle, while when the gold jewelry with color difference falls to the ground, the sound is loud and clear, and it bounces back.
⑥ The imprint of gold jewelry includes the manufacturer's code, material and purity, such as X-Gold 999.9. Where the letter X represents the manufacturer's large size. When jewelry is too small or too thin to print, there should be a logo containing the imprint.