First, if you love her, you must really love her first, and you can never care about her past. What about virgins? What if it's not? If she can do it, it can only show that she believes in that man and really loves that man. You know, just that man's rebellion.
Second, if she loves you, she won't care about her past, and all this is just that you are determined to hurt her. Did it ever occur to you that what she didn't expect was that the man betrayed her, but that she loved the man too much? It shouldn't be her fault, and you have no reason to blame her.
Third, you said that you can't bear to part with her, which means that you have her in your heart. Don't cling to her past. Look at her now. Now she is the real her.
Generally speaking, what if a girl is not a virgin? How can it be! ? Tell me, what could it be? Can these be so important? People's quality is not measured by the past. You were late for school and didn't finish your homework. That doesn't mean you are a bad person! Please remember, it's not her fault, you have no reason to blame her! !
In fact, it's your mind at work. Your association with her caused indirect harm to her. If you don't associate with her, you may get a relief. If you insist, I dare say you won't get really sweet happiness. Attention, it is sweet happiness! !
I hope you can do one thing for her: find a chance and apologize to him seriously. This is what a man should do.