The wedding ceremony can be simple, but it can't be without it. Only once in a lifetime (some people may have many times). Everyone pays attention to life and has a sense of ceremony, not to mention the wedding of two people. Although there are many people who do not advocate weddings, there are only a few who really don't hold them. I don't have it with me anyway.
For most ordinary people, the blank wedding is a sense of form and a declaration ceremony. The scene can be big or small, but both sides of this ceremony, especially the woman, must make it clear, otherwise it will look furtive. So, you should show some respect.
If your circle of friends advocates this, you can completely omit the wedding ceremony according to your own wishes, but everyone is vigorous and you can't keep a low profile if you want to.
Marriage is not only about two people, but also about two families. Getting married and starting a business represents the growth of a pair of young people, and it is also a reward for parents' years of parenting. They need their witness, and they should also have the witness and blessing of their relatives and friends.
If two people don't want to have a wedding, of course, others can't say anything, but whether the families of both sides are willing to accept your wishes.
Do you have any regrets about the pros and cons of getting married without a wedding?
First, do you want to have a wedding when you get married?
Holding a wedding is nothing more than inviting relatives and friends of both men and women to witness their union, formally swearing that they are husband and wife, emphasizing a ceremony and a grand atmosphere, and then celebrating a big meal together. If both men and women and their elders agree not to have a wedding, it is ok to omit this link.
Second, the pros and cons of getting married without a wedding
1, advantages:
(1) saves time
There are many things to prepare for a wedding. It takes a lot of time to buy a lot of wedding supplies and arrange the wedding.
(2) saving labor force
After the whole wedding, the couple and their families will be very tired. There are even many people who say they don't want to get married again.
(3) Peace of mind
In addition to physical fatigue, psychological fatigue will gradually occur. After all, planning the wedding after work is really tiring and complicated. So many people are prone to premarital phobia.
(4) Save money
If you don't have a wedding, although there will be no money and so on, you can save a lot of expenses, such as booze, clothes, wedding car and so on. At least it can save about 50,000 yuan, and more can save about150,000 yuan. All this money can be saved for other things, such as buying a new house, a car and a honeymoon.
2. Disadvantages:
(1) Out of memory.
If you don't hold a wedding banquet, you will lack good memories, which will inevitably be a pity in the future. People who care about this might as well have a wedding.
(2) Lack of sense of ceremony
The ceremony of the wedding is very strong, which makes people remember it deeply and unforgettable. If the wedding is not held in front of relatives and friends, it will give the couple, relatives and friends an illusion that they are not married.