Because the door-to-door banquet is a kind of ceremony in the traditional wedding custom, it is the bride and groom who return to the bride's house to visit their parents after the wedding to express their gratitude and respect, and it is also the first time that the newlyweds officially go home to visit their parents. Wedding is a ceremony held by the bride and groom at the wedding site to announce the good news of marriage to relatives and friends, and to receive blessings and witness. There are obvious differences in nature and content between them, and they cannot be confused. To sum up, the back door banquet cannot be written as a wedding, because there are essential differences between the two.

According to the traditional customs in China, weddings usually include wedding banquets, wedding ceremonies and wedding activities. In these links, the wedding banquet is an important part. The wedding banquet is a banquet held by the bride's family to celebrate the wedding, and friends and relatives are invited to celebrate the joy of the wedding. However, due to different regions, cultural backgrounds and personal preferences, wedding forms and customs are also different. Some families may only hold simple wedding ceremonies and wedding banquets, and some families may hold more grand wedding activities. Therefore, whether the woman's house banquet is counted as part of the wedding depends on the definition and expectation of the wedding parties. The bride's return banquet usually means that the bride's family invites the groom's family to the bride's house for dinner after marriage. This ceremony aims to show the hospitality of the bride's family and express gratitude and respect to the groom's family. Although women's door-to-door banquets are usually different from traditional wedding banquets, in some regions or cultures, women's door-to-door banquets are also regarded as part of weddings.

To sum up, whether the bride's return banquet is counted as part of the wedding depends on the specific situation and the wishes of the parties. Legally speaking, it is not clear whether the woman's return banquet is part of the wedding.

Legal basis:

People's Republic of China (PRC) Civil Code

Article 465

Contracts established according to law are protected by law. A legally established contract is legally binding only on the parties, except as otherwise provided by law.