Therefore, they hope to work hard for their careers when they are young and dare to propose to their beloved women when they have a certain economic foundation.
Of course, apart from this reason, many men need to have their own houses and cars. Without these material conditions, they are not confident enough to propose to their beloved woman, so it is a great economic pressure for young men.
Especially in some places where bride price is more important, many men often worry about bride price money, and even continue to worry about the livelihood of their families after marriage.
Let's not talk about wedding expenses for the time being. After marriage, they should not only worry about the miscellaneous chores of rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but also worry about the milk powder money and various expenses of early education classes after having children.
If you can't prepare for all the unknowns in the future before marriage, you will feel very headache about the word "money" after marriage, so this pressure will make men shrink back and dare not talk about "love" easily, or even dare not walk into marriage easily.
Modern women's thoughts are very independent.
Nowadays, women's thoughts are more and more independent, which is completely different from the girls of the last era. Women in those days hoped to change their lives by marrying a good man and starting a beautiful marriage.
Nowadays, women choose to be what they want to be in this era and begin to struggle for their careers and dreams. They no longer "fall in love" and no longer rely on marriage to spend their lives.
In other words, nowadays women are very "Buddha", and even in the face of constant urging from their parents and relatives, they still maintain their persistence.
If you can't meet a suitable lover, then you'd rather be single than spend the rest of your life with an unsuitable person who doesn't love.
Moreover, they have enough ability to support themselves and give themselves everything beautiful, even if they are alone, they will be particularly happy, so more and more young women are beginning to reject marriage.
Didn't meet the right lover
Marriage is a major event in life. Only by finding the person who really suits you can you feel the taste of happiness in the next journey.
So the reason why many young people have never been married is that they haven't met their lover yet, but when they meet the right person they really like, they naturally want to walk into the marriage hall with each other.
If you get married just for the sake of getting married, you won't feel lucky when you meet someone you don't like.
So even if you spend more time, you should try to find someone you really like to spend the rest of your life with.
This is the idea of many young people, so they don't want to get married more and more, and they don't want to meet blind date introduced by their parents and relatives, because they just want to marry someone they really like in their limited life.