Friend, his mother means well, because according to custom, men and women usually get together to hold drinks. The woman chooses a single day and the man chooses a double day. Now that men and women are doing it together, they all choose double dates. If your future mother-in-law objects, it means that her original intention is to hope that you will live forever, because the man can't be single, otherwise it will be unlucky. How about this? You don't see which day you hit the solar terms. Think about it! Remember, if you insist, if you have any conflicts with your mother-in-law in the future, she will blame you for the unlucky time of getting married and entering the door as a reason to say you!