My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship. I work and he works part-time. We have been together for more than three months and have known each other for a year and a half. Recently, there has been less and less contact and I don't want to take the initiative. I don't think there is much affection between you two, maybe because you are tired, but your sentence, I don't want to contact him actively, which proves that you don't like him very much either. If you really like someone, even if the other person doesn't take the initiative to contact him, you will want to know what he is doing, whether he is good or not, whether he wants to be himself and so on. I can't do it. If the other party doesn't contact, I won't contact. You are no different from ordinary friends, and you are not in love. You have gradually alienated each other unconsciously, which is no different from breaking up. Breaking up or not is just a form, not that important.