Polite, giving red envelopes at the wedding also reflects the communication skills of dealing with people. When giving gifts, you should pay attention to etiquette. Natural and elegant movements and polite language are the best ways to express gifts. Don't sneak a gift in a corner like a thief, it will be counterproductive. When giving gifts, it is best to avoid saying words that are too modest, such as "small profits" and "small gifts are no respect". Of course, it is inappropriate to emphasize that gifts are expensive. Etiquette experts point out that there is usually a reception desk where weddings are held. Generally, red envelopes and gifts will be sent to the reception desk, and someone will register and sign in. Or give it to the groom when you meet a new person, to the groom when you are friends with the groom, and to the bride when you are friends with the bride. As a reminder, you can give a big gift in advance on your wedding day. If you don't have time to prepare, you can also prepare honeymoon gifts for the newlyweds. Of course, gifts can also be made up after the wedding. For example, when it comes to festivals, it also has a double meaning, but it is best to make up within one year. Marriage will not only receive blessings, but also gifts from relatives and friends. How do you think some newcomers use gifts as a measure, such as the number of gifts representing the distance of the relationship? Well-known domestic wedding experts pointed out that good gifts cannot be measured by value. The introduction said: "We once had a wedding, and a friend was the owner of a winery. In fact, his wine is not very expensive, but he has specially customized a batch of wine for the bride and groom. There are wedding photos of the bride and groom and the date of their wedding anniversary on the bottle. He said to the bride and groom, you can keep these 50 bottles of wine, and you can take them out after your children get married. The heavier the liquor, the more fragrant it is. If it is stored for more than 20 years, it not only has high commercial value, but also contains unparalleled spiritual and cultural value. " Well-known domestic wedding experts pointed out that gifts should be chosen skillfully as well as delivered skillfully, and gifts can also be given artistically. "Like Inner Mongolia, the wedding will invite an art troupe, and the guests will give gifts by singing. Like the post-90s generation, friends will form strategic alliances. When I get married, you don't give me money or gifts. I won't give it to you when you get married. We owe each other nothing, send each other blessings, and form a gentleman's agreement with each other. However, this seems to be contrary to China's big culture of reciprocity. The process of giving gifts is actually a process of completing mutual communication. " Replacing red envelopes with gifts can not only weaken and blur the digital concept of money, but also meet the actual needs of married life. It is a precious emotional memorial close to life. Liu Chen, a financial planner at Bank of Beijing, said, "In my client consultation, I found that some young people prefer to accept gifts at the same time. Because the gift embodies humanistic care and emotional value, such as 200 yuan. I may be wrapped in a red envelope, and two pieces of red paper can't represent my heart. But if I spend 200 yuan to buy a small household appliance, such as humidifier, egg cooker and juicer, I think its significance is not measured by money. So I think gifts are now accepted by more and more people. " Whether it is a gift or a gift, it is appropriate to proceed from your own reality and do what you can. Internationally renowned etiquette experts pointed out that if the funds are temporarily closed, several people can get together to buy a gift. Or spend some time on yourself and carefully prepare a small creative, thoughtful and memorable gift. Advocate reciprocity, pay attention to mind, oppose extravagance and waste, give gifts to show off, keep up with the joneses, and be heavily in debt. Don't turn a happy event into a sad event by "punching your face to be fat" or "pretending to be embarrassed". It can be classified according to different incomes. Young people with low income can choose small gifts with good quality and low price; Relatives and friends with higher income can choose the combination of big gift and cash gift; Close relatives with very high income can choose high-grade gifts that can preserve and increase value. There is a big controversy: a good friend received an invitation indicating what the bride and groom want. As a newcomer, if you let the guests know their needs, can you better solve the practical problem of receiving red envelopes? Internationally renowned etiquette experts point out that it is impolite to send out a list of gifts with wedding invitations. Now the network is very convenient, you can inform your guests that I have registered an online shop and have chosen some gifts. You can go there and choose some for me, so that guests can choose freely online. The whole process can be operated on the computer, and the trouble of buying them in the store is saved. Wedding experts remind that before getting married, newlyweds must say hello to all their good friends, have one last party and bid farewell to single life. Everyone will talk a lot of private things together, and a large part will include discussing wedding gifts. If they are close, they will directly say what they like, which also saves the giver from racking their brains to prepare something. Maybe you are preparing something that others don't need or like.