My word is 3000. Because my wedding was just held here, my wife and I discussed the idea of 2000 yuan, but she said it was shameful to break the rules in our hometown. Tell you what, let's make 3000 yuan together. After all, we are brothers. I thought it made sense and agreed.
After all, my wife and I just got married and the family conditions are not very good. Our family did everything to get us married. Recently, home decoration, home appliances, furniture, banquets and jewelry all cost money, and there is no extra money.
My situation is for your reference. The main thing is that you can look at your own situation and do what you can. At the same time, discuss with your wife, not yourself. After all, my brother-in-law is half relative. It is really not a wise choice to make trouble for some money. It's embarrassing to go home for the New Year.
Of course, if you can't afford much money, you can also give some gifts other than red envelopes to make up for it, and recommend some that can be kept at home with good festive significance. For example, a couple's wedding doll: a soft pottery doll that can be customized according to real photos, and you can make a wedding doll in Tang suit with their wedding photos: a bear hug in Tang suit and put it on the bedside to show your happiness. These things don't cost much, but your brother-in-law knows what you want, right?