In the past, the day before the bride got married, the bride's family would hold a wedding reception for the girl, which was also the last meal for the girl at her family, because after marriage, she became a member of the man's family. All the people invited were close relatives and friends of her family. The bride's parents are not allowed to appear at the wedding on the wedding day.
Therefore, just before the girl went out, the bride's house hosted relatives and friends. Fangshan District of Beijing still retains the custom that the groom's parents attend the wedding banquet and the bride's mother does not appear at the wedding scene.
Of course, the most popular fashion wedding now is that both parents and relatives and friends are present at the same time. It only takes one day for both sides to hold a celebration banquet.
Pavilion, boudoir. In ancient times, it was called a "married" princess. Later, it generally refers to women getting married.
Not married. -Yuan Zhen's "Seven Women's Princess System"
When the prince came out, he was enfeoffed. Also called "going out". 1. When the prince comes out, he will seal the country. "The Secret Biography of Southern Qi Jiang": "All kings were once civil and military officials, and they all entrusted them with heavy responsibilities." "History of Song Dynasty Official History II": "In the eighth year of Taiping and Xingguo, the kings got out of the cabinet, and the king of Chu ordered the consultant to join the army, and Yi Shan became a member."
Refers to cabinet officials holding diplomatic posts. "Biography of Liang Shujiang": "When Wang Tai became a monk at the beginning, Gao Zu called Mianyun:' Jiang Chuan's capital should be in the selection department. " "
The princess is married. Tang Yuanzhen's "Seven Princess System": "Although it is fair, it is not deserved. Tom gives it first, and the packet is reasonable."
Generally speaking, women get married. The first time in A Dream of Red Mansions: "Jade thought to herself,' I only said that a senior sister is a new person when she gets married.' "Back to the thirtieth chapter of" Officialdom in Appearance ":"Men want to marry and women want to marry. There is a girl who has to get married sooner or later; When you become a monk, you become a person. " Mao Dun's microwave oven: "It costs money for the eldest daughter to get married."