It is very difficult for men to get married in China now, and many families can afford the bride price. After all, many families began to prepare bride price money when boys were born, and decades of savings are obviously a lot of money.
3. In people's minds, marriage should be the bride price of the man's family, and it is not surprising that the world has become accustomed to it now;
However, most women turn a blind eye to this when holding a wedding. When they hold a wedding, they will invite their relatives and friends. In the hotel, a table of several hundred yuan is very common, and the cost of a wedding is obviously huge. Not to mention a slightly better banquet, which is even more expensive.
So now many lovers who really love each other, through family negotiation, have dinner with their parents and relatives when they get married, and then get a license, saving a sum of money. Obviously, they are very clever. After this recovery, their married life will certainly not be tense.
Second, we must let all our relatives and friends know how glorious it is to have a good face at home, whether married or married.
1, most female families think that there is only one daughter. When they get married, the wedding must be glamorous, but they don't want to pay. They think that when they get married, the man has to pay for the wedding. This is the idea of many women.
2. There are also some parents who think that a daughter's marriage belongs to someone else's family, and it is not too much to spend money on a wedding.
Couples who get married without a wedding are very clear about the purpose of some routines. If the man has to bear such a big cost for such a face problem, the married life of such a lover is quite difficult.
Didn't Chongqing News report that a man got married with a loan, and hundreds of thousands of women cried after getting married, and then fled quietly?
Getting married is a happy thing. Don't make everyone sad because of face.
4, and now the wedding, there is really no nutrition, simply invite relatives and friends to have a meal, and I have not seen the new couple kowtowing to their parents on their knees, nor have I seen the new couple thanking their parents. Marriage is another kind of freshman, and it is an important process to tell children. We should kowtow and thank our parents. We should be similar to the etiquette of the ancients
Third, in order to recover the money of the molecules.
1, to tell the truth, there is really no money to make for a wedding now. A table of dishes is hundreds or cheaper, a little more than a few thousand. What money can you make? A banquet costs tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands. How many families can receive hundreds of thousands of gifts?
2. So many new people are very considerate and get married without a wedding.
However, people should be realistic when they are alive, and the wedding can be done if they have the ability and financial resources.
Social competition is fierce, life pressure is great, and people's abilities are different. Not everyone has the ability to undertake and organize a grand wedding. If the material things such as houses, cars and weddings are tied together with marriage, these things will inevitably become the shackles of freedom of marriage. I wonder how many people in China can't get married.
Days, poor; Rich people are too rich. For a wedding, they were heavily in debt after marriage. The husband and wife were exhausted from paying their debts and complained to each other. How can life be happy? It is realistic to measure a wedding by one's own living standard.