20 13 Graduated from university in July, and came to Foshan as a design assistant with a salary of 3,000 yuan. I rented a house of 350 yuan by myself. The salary for 20 14 years is 4000 yuan. Living alone, I have enough food and flowers. Basically self-sufficient after graduation. I have never taken any money from my family, nor have I borrowed any money. Of course, I have never achieved anything.
Starting from 20 15, I switched to sales, and my income was unstable, with an average of about 7000. Work requires a car. This year, the old car, Haima's and Big Brother have been replaced for 8 years. They are worn out, often maintained and expensive. As single dog, it has saved about 40,000 yuan this year, and paid off the university student loan at one time.
20 16, proficient in business and accumulated many customers. I love my job, I am diligent, and my income is relatively high. I saved 65438+ million this year. In the past two years, Foshan's housing prices are not very good, relatively low, only 6,000 yuan a flat. But at this time, I am also a young man who has just entered the society, single. I don't have much idea about buying a house and buying a house. I never expected to buy a house. Lend money to my eldest brother to buy a house.
20 18 is a tragic year. The industry was depressed and I changed my salary. There is basically no income and no money saved. He also opened a milk tea shop in partnership with several classmates, with an investment of nearly 65,438+10,000. In less than half a year, it ended in failure. The old car I drive is in tatters, so I have to replace it. 1.3 million bought a new car and spent all his savings. After working for several years, it is really not easy to save this money. In the second half of the year, I finally got a girlfriend. With a girlfriend, my expenses naturally increased. During this year, I spent a lot of money, and my income was almost enough to maintain food and clothing. Savings are also used up. What's even more depressing is that during the two years from 20 17 to 20 18, house prices soared and more than doubled. I had no savings and missed the opportunity to afford a house.
20 19, the industry is severe, and now I can't see the hope of work and industry, and I am very confused about my career and future. This time is a very critical age. At the age of 30, talk about marriage, buy a house and get married. After marriage? Do you want a child? Just thinking about it is big! ! ! Standing at the age of 30, I only feel stressed. I also have many dreams and hobbies, and everything is lost to life! This is my feeling and experience in recent years.
1989, female, just turned 30 this year!
In 2008, 18 years old, stepped into the society, holding a monthly salary of about 1300, and told himself to save seven or eight thousand yuan every year.
20 1 1 school assignment, admitted to a state-owned coal mine as an office clerk, with a monthly salary of about 3500. The surrounding conditions of the newly-opened coal mine are difficult, and there is no opportunity for shopping. Excluding expenses, it can save more than 20 thousand yuan every year.
In 20 15, because the country advocated the development of new energy, the coal industry was in crisis, and he resigned to a listed company to do personnel administration work with a monthly salary of about 3,800 yuan. With the improvement of living standards, the expenses have increased, and the annual deposit is about 1.5 million.
I got married in 20 17, and my savings in these years totaled 1 1 10,000, so I bought myself a Cruze. By the end of 20 17, only 30,000 people were married.
My son was born in 2065438+2008, and my husband and I's living expenses such as mortgage, car maintenance, utilities, property fees, my son's clothes, milk powder, diapers and so on are basically zero.
20 19, standing at the age of 30, I feel back to the original point, which is really a new beginning!
1984, 35 years old this year.
When I was a sophomore, I chose to join the army because there was no hope of going to college. I retired from the army in 2003, and I was very confused. I just wanted to have a job to support myself, because when I was in the army, I thought I could stay in the army and become a non-commissioned officer. I never thought I would step into the society.
Through the introduction of comrades-in-arms, I will be a security guard first, with a salary of 600 yuan/month. At that time, I was so happy that it was not so easy to find a job. You know, in the past, my brothers and sisters had to be introduced by acquaintances and paid a deposit when looking for a job, so I also cherished my work and cleaned the dormitory. I also work hard. Three months later, I became a vice captain, specializing in rookie training and mobile patrol. At this time, I also met my wife, who was a real estate salesman at that time. Later, we started dating, and I found that my status and income were too low. After working as a security guard for five months, I applied to join the company's property department and walked into the office. However, if my wife is from Foshan, she must buy a house here in Guangdong. Property management can't achieve this goal. I still remember the first time I went to a big family in Mount Tai.
In 2006, I chose to do real estate sales, because this job is quick to get money, and I can make money as long as I work hard. I have worked for 13 years this year, and my projects are in Times Real Estate, Vanke Real Estate and China Merchants Shekou.
In 2009, I bought my first house in Foshan, because it was close to Taishan's home, so I bought it there and have lived there ever since. Married on 20 10, and Dabao was born on 20 1 1. At that time, buying a house, getting married and having children, both husband and wife's savings were used up. 20 1 1, give my son a full moon wine, with 4000 left. I resigned because I was confined with my son and didn't want to leave regrets for that day. After the full moon, the child quickly threw himself into his new job, and so did his son when he was four months old. At the end of 20 12, I paid off my previous debts, and then bought my first car, GAC concept.
In 20 15, I changed to a Volkswagen lavida, which means that my life is on the right track! Then at that time, we were already discussing that the country should liberalize the second child policy, so we planned the second child with our wife. When I attended my cousin's wedding that year, I found my little niece so cute, so I had a strong idea of having a daughter.
20 16 my old father was diagnosed with cholangiocarcinoma and was a world-class killer. At that time, the whole person was stunned. In order to treat my father, I chose to resign again and sold an apartment I bought at the seaside. However, all efforts are in vain. Here, I also advise all family members not to overtreatment when their loved ones' diseases are irreparable, so that they can leave with quality and dignity. I was very irrational at that time and took my father to seek medical treatment, but my father left more than a month after I was diagnosed with the disease, and there was no quality of life during my hospitalization. I didn't expect much. I just wanted my old father to live until our second treasure was born, but in the end he didn't see it. The arrival of our two treasures in June 5438+ 10 in the same year made my mother feel better.
I'm still working, but I don't want to work more and more. I regret not buying more houses before, otherwise I wouldn't be struggling in front-line sales at the age of 35 as I am now.
1989, she graduated from the countryside with a bachelor's degree. She is 30 years old and has worked for 8 years. She is a national registered cost engineer, first-class constructor (municipal), consulting engineer and supervision engineer. At present, she has a guaranteed annual income of about 500,000 yuan, two suites, one in a prefecture-level city (full payment) and one in Chengdu, all of which are purchased by herself without family support. She bought an Artz at the end of 14. However, the hardships are only self-knowledge. Looking back on my experience in recent years, I have concluded that two points are most important for people's growth. First, everything is established in advance, and unpredictable is abolished; Second, hard work is important, but choice is more important than hard work.
1 1 In July, like my buddy who worked in East Africa, it was difficult for me to go to college because I was born in the countryside and my family conditions were poor. I clearly know that I will take my own road in the future, so I did not hesitate to promise a large construction company in Qingdao to work in Africa when I applied for a job in Southwest Jiaotong University. The idea is simple. When you go abroad, your salary is very high. At that time, the annual salary offered to us was 1.2 million, which was too tempting for me. I thought I could go back to China to buy a suite after going out to work for two years, and I was only 24 years old two years later. It doesn't matter, but it backfired. I worked in Qingdao for more than a year and didn't go abroad. The main reason is that Africa was a little turbulent during that time. /kloc-I was called to Namibia in February/March, and my passport and visa were all ready, but it didn't make any sense for me to go abroad again. When I came back from abroad two years later, I had nothing but a little savings. Then I went to a private construction company in Gansu to do on-site management through a friend's introduction. My salary is 5000 yuan, and I have to stay up late when I am making concrete. The temperature difference between day and night is so great that my face is peeling off several layers. The most memorable time was when I went to Chengdu to play with my girlfriend. When I got off at Liangjiaxiang Station, I was laughed at as an African stork. /kloc-in August of 0/3, after several sleepless nights of thinking, I resigned and returned to my hometown. Doing this project is never a long-term solution. I wander around, how can I take care of my family in the future At that time, I personally felt that only the project cost in the construction industry was relatively stable, and then I voted for several resumes of prefecture-level cities in my hometown. Fortunately, I was admitted to a well-known local firm, but the salary was extremely low, the basic salary was 1800, but I got a commission, didn't include food and shelter, and directly lost my basic life. But I also crustily skin of head, but the good thing is that I have a solid foundation, learn quickly and do many projects. I earned nearly 1.2 million in the first year, and I was very happy at that time, but I was going to marry in 15 years. At that time, I had no car, no room, nothing, not even a wedding room. My wife gave me a small one. I am even more grateful to my wife for her approval. Although the bride price she gave my husband's family at that time was 654.38 million yuan, my mother-in-law gave me more than 200,000 Artz (actually, I didn't want such an expensive car, but my mother-in-law didn't want me to be looked down upon by others). I was very moved and vowed to work hard to repay them. At that time, after I got married, I gave the money to the wedding company, leaving only 3000 yuan in my bag. At that time, I secretly vowed to work hard to make up for my wife, and then 15 worked overtime in the office to do the project. I am very lucky. My 15 income was about 200,000 yuan, and later my wife got pregnant, but we still didn't have our own house, and the income of the office was not always stable. So on 16, my classmates and I resigned and prepared to pass the cost engineer exam at one time, because only in this way will our income be stable and improve qualitatively. In those six months, my classmates and I started reading at 7: 30 every morning and went to bed at night 1 1 30, encouraging each other, just like the college entrance examination for six months, everything paid off. He and I both passed the cost engineer exam at one time on 16 and became the youngest cost engineer. Since I passed the examination of cost engineer, my classmates and I have started our own office. The income is basically not less than 500 thousand, and now the firm is thriving. Although I didn't set up my own firm, according to my contacts and business level in recent years, although the company's income is less than 200 thousand a year, my income from private projects outside has far exceeded the company's income. And since 16, I still insist on taking all kinds of professional qualification examinations for architecture to improve my business level. The goal I set for myself is to finish the building permit exam before the age of 30, and never take the exam again, only waiting for the senior engineer exam at the age of 32. Through these years' efforts, I have achieved first-class construction. Now I can occasionally participate in the evaluation of some projects as an expert in engineering. /kloc-I finally bought the first suite in this city at the end of 0/6 and the second suite in Chengdu last year. I haven't received any financial support from my family. If my income this year can exceed last year's, I'm going to switch to the fifth department at the end of the year. I like it for a long time and want to improve my quality of life. Prove to my wife and mother-in-law that she is not wrong about me. Looking back now, if I hadn't thought and decided carefully every time, I might still be wandering in the project, because too many students around me are engaged in construction projects. They want to resign now, but they can't find such a high-paying job on the project after resigning. They want to take care of their families, but there is nothing they can do. Although still doing engineering, it is much more stable. Here, I would like to pay tribute to the brothers and sisters who work in the front line of construction. Thank you for your hard work!
This was taken by a friend at the construction site that year, reminding myself at all times.
I'm going to be 30. My monthly income is only 3500 yuan. I rent a house, and my monthly income is 1500. I have to take care of my water and electricity property, and I have to give it to my family 1 0,000 every month. My sister has to contribute some living expenses from time to time. Father is idle at home now, and his income is very small. I have to give him hundreds of cigarettes from time to time. I don't know where I got the courage. Probably the so-called vanity.
Although I'm almost 30 and have no savings, I haven't got into the habit of spending in advance, and I haven't had a credit card. In fact, I'm afraid I can't control myself and I'm afraid I'll fall into a vicious circle. ...
Although I will feel very lost and frustrated, I still have expectations for the future. The future is expected. Come on ~
1989, I am 30 years old now. I always believe that I am standing at 30, so I have been trying to make money.
Around 2008, I graduated from high school and opened a billiard hall with my friends in our county. Of the three partners, I invested more than 10 thousand, and the other two invested 20 thousand and 30 thousand respectively It was profitable at first, and earned more than 10 thousand in three months. Later, we went to Beijing to go to college, and there was only one partner in the store (one year younger than us). Reporting to us is a monthly loss. Only after asking did we know that he took our money to find her in other places and stayed in five-star hotels. We were angry when we found out. So I quit my job. Lost thousands of dollars.
1 1 When I was in college, I worked in a factory in Beijing and proved that I could bear hardships. The boss of the factory is in the lamp post business, and my job is to wear a mask to polish the lamp post.