First, engagement articles: Wenzhou usually needs to get engaged first, and choose the engagement date first. There are six kinds of dishes, chopsticks, shoes and clothing, gifts, gold ornaments and wedding candy in Wenzhou ... If there are any Wenzhou natives who have been married in recent two years, you can ask them. Usually you will find a wedding planning company now, and they will tell you these customs and processes.

Second, the marriage:

1. Wedding Hotel Reservation:

After deciding on the wedding date, we will start to book hotels and arrange banquets. It is best to book the hotel one year or one and a half years in advance, and everyone will get married on a good day. There are more and more hotels in Wenzhou market, and now more and more young people entrust wedding planning companies to recommend hotels, saving time and effort.

Then we must settle down first. Of course, the man is responsible for buying a house and decorating it. The renovation will take at least two months, usually after the engagement. After the renovation, all the furniture in the room was bought by the man, and the rest was dressed by the woman. Everything with plugs and decorations, as well as kitchen cabinets and bedding, is handled by the woman. ?

①: Bedclothes. On the wedding day, ten sets of red (pink) beds, four sets of spare change and four sets of guest rooms were mostly purchased from common brands in Wenzhou, such as Nanfang Dormitory, Yu Sheng and Fuanna. These stores are very dense in Fei Xia Road, with more than 2,000 sets in ten stores. Many people buy traditional big red and only use it once when they get married, which is too wasteful. If parents don't object, pink is more practical and more lively and romantic. There are also quilts, mattresses (that is, bedding), wool and other complete sets of supplies, which can be made in the same store. ?

②: Kitchen supplies. Pots, pots, pots and pans include some small items in the kitchen and bathroom, such as knives, planers, music buttons, storage boxes, mouthwash cups, towels, tissue boxes and so on. Fei Xia Road is still recommended.

3: Children's bucket. This decorative thing was bought by my mother-in-law herself. There are many styles, such as "a hundred years in the same boat", "a line of marriage" and "contentment", all of which mean beauty.

(4) traditional custom necessities such as red suitcase, summer sleeping mat and wind bucket. Luggage can also be bought in Taobao, with various styles, such as the bride's new clothes (including the small dress worn at the door), and "lucky money" should be placed at the bottom of the suitcase. For safety and convenience, many people put cards directly, and the number depends on the woman's parents. Because it is for my daughter to take to her husband's house for backup, the elders are more generous. Mats and wind buckets can be bought at farmers' markets or Fei Xia Road. In addition, there are popcorn, some "premature" and small change (single piece, fifty cents and ten cents) in the wind bucket, totaling 108 yuan. Let the children of the man's relatives touch it as soon as possible after marriage, and then put a pair of change and "premature birth" in the small kit.

2, wedding etiquette planning and implementation services

① The layout of the hotel and stage on the wedding day is mainly the layout design of the welcome area, walkway and main stage; Floriculture layout, exquisite lighting design, all-round implementation of planning services.

②: Wedding-related personnel shall be equipped with emcee, makeup artist and photographer, and wedding planning companies may be equipped with relevant personnel; Or you can make an appointment in advance if you have a favorite new person. (The number of personnel, specific service quantity and personnel level are different. Prices range from a few hundred to several thousand, and the difference is still quite large. Do what you can)

③: You don't have to worry about the toast procedure on the wedding day. General professional wedding etiquette company planners will give professional advice on how to propose a toast, and just follow suit. You can also ask wedding housekeeper or the new secretary to accompany you.

Step 3 take a wedding photo

To choose a good time, March, May, 65438+ 10 is the best time to take wedding photos, with good weather and good scenery. Book early, because everyone is rushing to go at a good time. It is best to make an appointment while doing activities. Send more things, and the price will be relatively cheap. When taking pictures, it is recommended to follow your own preferences. Don't listen to other people's advice easily. Many of them are beneficial, but generally there is nothing to recommend. Another thing to note is that when choosing a photo studio, the number of clearly registered photos (generally 50, some 40 are too few) is still very different from the unit price of each additional photo studio. High 50, low 30. The final total price difference is not small.

4. Wedding dress and makeup

Nowadays, many people buy wedding dresses. It's good to have time. After all, it is much cheaper to buy in Suzhou and Shanghai, but we should pay attention to the average quality in Suzhou. There is also a lot of travel expenses for a trip. Let's compare which is more cost-effective to rent or buy. A good makeup artist should also make an appointment in advance. Different makeup artists have different prices, ranging from more than one thousand to more than five thousand.

5. A gift from the woman to the man's family. (This part can basically be discounted. After all, it is troublesome to consider each other's preferences when buying things. )

①: Sweet potato ye sweet potato niang. You have to buy presents for both the sweet potato master and the sweet potato girl. Usually a suit and a pair of shoes, but many people choose to discount (the discount depends on the woman's financial situation)

②: Brothers and sisters of Sweet Potato Niang. That is, the man's uncle and aunt usually buy a quilt or quilt cover and other bedding (if the number of uncles and aunts is large, they can also be discounted, which can save a lot of things)

③: Brothers and sisters of the man. People with brothers usually buy a shirt or other clothes. Sisters are usually rings or necklaces. Spouses of brothers and sisters are regarded as brothers or sisters.

Wedding red envelope:

Wenzhou's "red envelopes" are also very particular about the size, quantity and giving method at different times. It can be roughly divided into big red envelopes, wine table red envelopes, bridesmaid red envelopes, and special person red envelopes, among which special and exquisite big red envelopes are used for special occasions such as gift money, return gifts, six samples, suitcase money, sleeves pressing, and daughter-in-law tea.

Man:

1. Give the best man two red envelopes. 580 ~ 880 yuan. (If there are many groomsmen, just give red envelopes to the two main groomsmen. )

2. Nine bridesmaid red envelopes. 200- 1000 yuan. (The bride decides according to her circle of friends. )

3. Open the door with a red envelope. Generally, 20 yuan, 50 yuan, 100 yuan. When the groom goes to the bride's house and enters the bride's boudoir, he must prepare red envelopes for all bridesmaids (9 people). If you can't do it once, you have to prepare a second set and a third set.

4. suitcase money. 8800- 15800 yuan. The bride has brothers and sisters for them, but not for their mother or those who are assigned to sit in the box.

5. Burn jiaozi and give out red envelopes. 380-580 yuan. Give one to the aunts who served dumplings and tea at the ceremony in the new house.

6. Wedding car red envelope. The first car is a red Mercedes, 1000 yuan, and there are two packs of cigarettes; The wedding car in the back is red A4350 yuan, and the cigarette is 1 pack. Other types of car etiquette companies have specific price lists, which are directly given to drivers by the best man in advance. If it is overtime (limited to 2 hours), the market price is generally half an hour 100 yuan.

7. lion dance red envelope. 6×28 yuan. After the performance, they will give the couple a pair of blessing couplets and give them.

8. Red envelopes on the wine table. 100 yuan+1 pack of cigarettes. Now the man will help the woman set 4-6 tables, at least 4 tables, including wine red packets.

9. On the wedding day, the groom had better prepare more small red envelopes. If there are relatives and friends performing on stage or interactive programs, you can use red envelopes as rewards. ?

Remarks: Generally, it will be prepared 3 months in advance to 1 year ago. Of course, these items are divided into high, medium, low and grade.