First, when a man gets married, a woman gets married.
It is against the rules to get married when it is time to get married. I don't quite agree with this view. The time to get married is not at physical age, but when you are psychologically mature enough to be responsible for your choice and future family.
Second, the pressure of public opinion.
We are not married, and our parents are suffering. Since ancient times, China has a tradition that emperors don't worry about eunuchs. Seven aunts are extremely concerned about your marriage. Our parents can't stand this kind of offensive, so they have to put pressure on us.
Besides being single, most people still want to get married early, so why are we so excellent, but we still don't let our parents worry about it?
First of all, being strangled in the cradle
It takes practice and study to fall in love and get married. If you fall in love before college, once you are found out, your parents and teachers will talk to you immediately, and your ability to communicate with the opposite sex will be gradually stifled and your emotional intelligence will be insufficient.
Second, think more complicated.
It is human nature to weigh the pros and cons when you meet more people. When you can't recognize yourself, you can't find the criteria for choosing a spouse at all, so you can't make up your mind.
In fact, all measures are delaying tactics, and negotiations should be strategic.
First, analyze the requirements.
Parents are forced to get married because they want you to solve this problem. What you need is to find someone you like. The biggest difference between us and our parents is time.
Second, seek common ground while reserving differences.
Be sure to say that you will get married, and then talk about the many benefits of marriage, which is equivalent to giving them a reassurance, and then talk about your plans for the future.
Third, give negative teaching materials
We live in a different era from our parents'. Blindly following the trend of marriage will only lead to an increase in divorce rate. In order to protect the quality of life of yourself and your baby in the future, you must polish your eyes and find your most suitable life partner.