I feel the same way. In the past six months, my brother has given me the feeling that he has completely changed. House decoration, wedding planning, he is busy alone.
I was sweating for him until the night before the wedding. I am more nervous than when I got married, mainly because I am worried that his body can't stand it. Because he only slept for three or four nights in a row and wanted to be unique in the wedding, he chose to be a part-time host himself.
I clearly remember once, at 3: 40 in the morning, he sent a circle of friends:
Every girl is looking forward to wearing the most beautiful wedding dress and having a unique wedding of her own. Today, I stand on this stage in a very special capacity. I am the groom who undertakes this wedding, and I am the irreplaceable first hero and host. ...
Everyone has fallen asleep, but he is writing a manuscript on the shelf, just to give that beloved her an unforgettable memory.
So, when everyone said that the wedding was outstanding, I thought everything was reasonable. Even when I typed these words, I was worried that I didn't have enough talent to write the beauty at that time. Because I know very well how much unknown efforts he has made.
A sense of ritual in life is essential. From the moment I went to pick up the bride, I took photos of my brother with my mobile phone and made various small videos, hoping to give the couple more beautiful memories.
The first is the game of welcoming the bride and blocking the door. At this time, turning on the phone to take pictures will still make people laugh.
The groom is required to call the bride by ten different names, which cannot be repeated and there is a time limit. To tell the truth, it's a bit difficult, but fortunately, many hands make light work. When he really couldn't figure it out, everyone gave a hint, so he passed the test quickly.
After entering the bride's wedding room, they play dancing, push-ups, sing solitaire, find shoes and say vows.
Every game is full of skills. I just want to say that young people are really good at playing. In particular, it needs to be emphasized that reading the oath is nothing more than some unequal treaties. For example, the groom is all-encompassing in housework and the wife is always right.
It stands to reason that watching these rules and regulations is boring, but through the humor of my brother and the interaction between friends, the game that should have been boring becomes interesting.
If these are just snacks before meals, it's the first time I've seen myself as a host in a hotel.
Due to the delay in his mother-in-law's house, we decided to have a lunch 12. When we arrived at the hotel, we had already exceeded the scheduled time. So, thank you very much for your understanding.
Originally, a couple needed to meet guests at the gate of the hotel, but they became everyone waiting for them. Even the posters of the bride and groom haven't had time to hang them all. As soon as they arrived at the hotel, they were eager to change their suits and wedding dresses into Tang suits and cheongsam. Time is a little urgent, but I admire my brother's busyness.
A man is in charge of the overall situation, and there is nothing I can do behind him. Even after he changed his clothes, he didn't notice when he was wearing a "Shanghai man's hat" and sunglasses.
I only heard him say that the countdown to the wedding starts at 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 A man with a height of 180cm, wearing a China red Tang suit, a big black hat and sunglasses, holding wheat in his right hand and 666 in his left hand.
There was a 360-degree turn on the stage, followed by a room full of screams and thunderous applause. As he spoke, he strode to the center of the stage.
The hat and sunglasses have been taken off by him, revealing a handsome smiling face.
He went on to say, I dare not say that I am the most handsome groom? But I can assure you that I am the boldest and most unique groom? I have never experienced such a big stage. But in order to leave an unforgettable memory for the woman I love most, I bravely threw caution to the wind ..... So, in order to ease my nervousness, can everyone join in more?
Meanwhile, the audience applauded, screamed and whistled. I squatted at the front and left this beautiful and romantic moment to him. Occasionally, when I look back, all the guests are around the stage. Everyone rushed to take out their mobile phones, take photos and send friends. The atmosphere was excellent. The previously quiet hotel has been smashed to the point of explosion.
The groom hosts at the innermost part of the stage. As his own sister, I can still see that he is a little nervous. After all, it is a' big scene' of 26 tables. Later, I heard him say that I didn't get enough sleep for four consecutive nights 10 hours. When I came to the stage, my head was stunned. Of course, this is another story.
The bride, wearing a China red cheongsam, an oblique bun and a pair of red stilettos, sat at the outermost end of the stage and waited. Reminds me of the beauty in the north, peerless independence.
There is a saying in ancient China that when a woman gets married, her mother combs her hair. My brother, as the host, introduces at the other end:
Here, his mother-in-law has combed the bun for the bride and covered it with a red veil. The so-called everything is ready, only the east wind is needed.
After that, my brother smiled and explained the origin of the brazier, while walking towards the bride. It seems that he can't wait to hold Mei Jiaoniang's hand. Of course, this is my idea.
I really don't know where he came from as a post-90s generation and knows so many ancient rules. Crossing the brazier means good luck and prosperity in the future.
Before my brother came to power, I always wondered how he could wear two hats. It's not as complicated as I thought. All talk and no action.
I saw a couple walk to the center of the stage, and the groom was very happy to say, in this session, I invite friends and relatives to welcome our four parents to the stage with the warmest applause.
When everyone was laughing and shouting, the parents on both sides took their seats on the stage, only to hear the groom sing a gloomy old song: Lift your veil and let me see your eyebrows. ......
Have you guessed the following link? The host asked everyone with a smile.
I know, I know, the people below lifted their veils and answered loudly.
Yes, this is the most exciting moment. Do you want to see the bride's face? I saw that he had finished asking, and the following replied in unison: Yes.
Just then, the groom took the scale and asked, do you know what this is called? Who knows? Please answer me loudly. I still remember, at that moment, my little daughter Ting loudly replied: Scale.
Yes, in China's wedding, the bride's head is veiled, waiting for the groom to lift it with a balance beam inlaid with sixteen wishful stars, symbolizing good luck, wealth and contentment.
Lifting the hijab is also exquisite, and it must be three times. The groom's mouth and hands are one, he said and chose. Satisfied on the left, rich and auspicious on the right, beautiful and beautiful in the middle. Everyone said, is it nice? Please tell me with your applause.
There was thunderous applause from the audience, followed by the bride's meeting and tea pouring. At this time, the two mothers were particularly fierce, playing tricks on the couple again and again, causing the following laughter.
After the game, my brother took his sister-in-law and bowed to thank him. This is also a program that I have never participated in at all weddings.
Thank you sincerely. After all, at the end of the year, everyone took time out to attend his wedding, but for their own reasons, they were late and asked all their friends to wait for him. I think bowing to thank him is enough to prove his apology and personal accomplishment.
After the wedding, everyone said that it was very interesting and bold for the groom to be the host himself. But it feels good, and the atmosphere is definitely better than the wedding company.
Yes, I don't know how tired my brother is after a wedding. But I know that it was agreed at that time that Miss Ding and I would go back to our parents' home with the whole family to chat and talk about our experiences.
As a result, he lay on the sofa and fell asleep in less than 5 minutes. Indeed, the wedding is not as simple as we were then.
In addition to being good at singing and dancing, you need to be flexible in mind, strong in body and, most importantly, articulate.
The so-called civil and military integrity is nothing more than that sentence: these days, I dare not get married without some talent.