The person who carries a burden in marriage must be the maid of honor and the best man. If there is no groomsman and bridesmaid, the younger brother or sister of the bride's relatives is needed to carry the luggage. On the way to the man's house, the luggage can't be tied. It needs to be transported to the husband's house and put in a box.

2. My mother-in-law turned over the burden.

The bride's mother-in-law needs to open the box containing wedding luggage when the bridesmaid and the best man carry it to the man's house, and find out the money in the luggage and the dowry given by her family. The bride explains the source and use of money in the same way, and the mother-in-law needs to give the bride the same money.

People who carry luggage must be close to the bride, lest others collide with the bride's good luck and wealth. It is a local tradition to get married with a burden. Many places don't have this custom, so whether to get married needs to be decided according to local customs.