If the woman wants to buy electrical appliances, she will give you 20 thousand, of which you should buy hats, furniture and the like for your man 1 10 thousand or 500 yuan. You have to discuss it yourself, but if you give 20 thousand, you will definitely be asked to buy electrical furniture and so on. We must discuss it. You are embarrassed to tell your mother-in-law what kind of local conditions and customs you tell your man in. Marriage has to be discussed! Don't disagree, hehe. Happy wedding.