In China, we attach great importance to the inheritance of consanguinity and pay attention to filial piety. Few families choose not to have children, and some families choose not to have children to set up Dink family with the consent of both husband and wife because of family situation and their own reasons.
Among the stars we are familiar with are Ekin Cheng and Pu Shu. The reasons why they don't want children are similar! Not having children is because life is too hard.
1, eager to get married, but don't want children
Ekin Cheng and his wife Yoyo Mung got married in June 2065438+2003, and it has been more than seven years now. Their children should be very old by rights. In fact, they have never had children. Only after watching an interview with Ekin Cheng did they know that he was "double income and childless".
Host Jing Li asked in the program: "Have you ever thought about having children?" He replied that he wouldn't. Excavate asked why. Ekin Cheng said: "Families with children are lively, but I'm worried that the children's life pressure is too great. Nowadays, giving birth to children can't be as casual as it used to be, and it needs to be cultivated with heart. But there will be no happy childhood, and the pressure will be even greater. We shouldn't have children just because we are happy, it depends on whether the children are happy. "
Vic Zhou, who stood by, agreed with these words and said that Nan Ge was very open-minded. Why did he torture himself in just a few decades? Are you happy?
After watching this video, I am deeply touched. What do people live for? Why did my parents give birth to me and raise me? They tirelessly take care of me when I grow up. They have no free time and dreams. They spent half their lives in fog.
Some people think it's easy for an artist like Ekin Cheng to have children. He has enough money to create a happy childhood for his children. He said that because he didn't want to have children yet. The working class is not afraid. What is he afraid of?
In fact, different values have different views on one thing. Perhaps in Ekin Cheng's eyes, his life is not happy. It is because he has suffered a lot from life that he doesn't want his children to suffer. He is afraid that their children will suffer when they are born, and that they will live a life they don't like.
2. Because life is too hard, I don't want to make my children unhappy.
20 13, Ekin Cheng and Yoyo Mung got married in a low-key manner. This man, who once became famous for playing the Hong Kong gangster, is extremely gentle with his wife, but many people find it strange that they still have no children after years of marriage, so a reporter put this question to Ekin Cheng.
Faced with such a sharp question, Ekin Cheng didn't choose to avoid answering, but told reporters very seriously that life was too bitter, he didn't want his children to go through it again, and he wasn't ready to be a father himself.