Wei invited Wu to his home and told him that the emperor's son actually had a bad life. He is angry in front of people, not as gentle and considerate as ordinary women. Wu Qi was afraid, so he fled to Chu before Wei Wuhou planned to marry his daughter. Wei was afraid that Wuqi's limelight would cover himself up too much. This move makes people doubt Wuqi, which can be said to be a great loss for Wei. That depends on the status of mules in other dynasties. After the ancient mule married the princess, was it necessary to serve the princess? Their family status is low, can they still have three wives and four concubines? Because of different dynasties and different status of men and women, there is no unified answer.
With the change of dynasties, the relationship between the princess and the mule also changed.
Before the Ming and Qing Dynasties, the dominant position of women in North Korea also had some influence. At that time, the status of women was higher than that of other dynasties, and the relationship between husband and wife may also be the relationship between monarch and minister. The power status outside the house is naturally different. In the Eastern Han Dynasty, the married princess and mule did not live together, but the mule had to get instructions and permission to see the princess. Although there is no long-distance love, it is impossible to really live together. During the Southern Dynasties, the husband could only walk behind his wife, not forward, but backward. See your wife at night, but not at other times. It's a bit strange to watch couples meet now, but it's obvious that the husband's position in the family is not high.
In the Tang dynasty, the princess's family status reached its peak. Because of her bad reputation in the Tang dynasty, the princess's family style was adversely affected and disobeyed by the traditional authority of the Tang dynasty. At this time, the gentry in the Tang dynasty were unwilling to welcome the princess. This is described in the official history and notes of the Tang Dynasty, and a famous scholar described in detail the reasons why the gentry in the Tang Dynasty did not want to marry the princess. In the Song Dynasty, the status of women gradually declined, and in the Ming and Qing Dynasties, their status was even more humble, without the freedom and arrogance of the past. On the contrary, men have a higher status and require women not to go out at home. The princess of the Qing Dynasty was sent to her parents, far from her hometown. In marriage, the princess may become the victim of the dynasty and the weight of the royal family to maintain the relationship. The status naturally declines, and donkeys and horses also have concubines. Therefore, whether it is a princess or an ordinary girl, their marriage fate is closely related to the times.
First of all, according to the funeral regulations, among the five pieces of clothes, cutting off the decline is the heaviest one. The status of men is higher than that of women. Only when the wife is a princess can she marry a man for filial piety, and the husband needs to be beheaded for three years. In Tang Wenzong, Du Fu encountered such a problem. Secondly, the door of the first view is locked. In the Tang Dynasty, especially from the early Tang Dynasty to the middle Tang Dynasty, gatekeepers were highly valued. Among the dignitaries, the royal family of Li Tang cannot be conceited. At that time, the marriage problem inherited the style of Okoyi, which was too free and unconstrained. According to records, more than 26 princesses in the Book of the New Tang Dynasty remarried and had three daughters-in-law. The attitude of traditional gentry to the royal style in Tang Dynasty is mixed. This conflict of traditional ideas neither wants to marry the royal family nor wants to marry the royal family.
Finally, there is no restriction on the norms and guidelines of female rituals. At this time, the princess's manners are not noble and elegant. On the contrary, her disobedience to women's morality and arrogance and willfulness are also the reasons that disgust her. For the sake of fame, I don't want to get married even though I am a nobody.
Therefore, no matter which era, no matter who is in power or not, marriage is often said to be suitable for the imperial era with strong tradition in China, but the behavior of commodities is very heavy. Otherwise, even the princess will face the problem of getting married. The traces of misbehavior of princesses in the Tang Dynasty are recorded in both official history and unofficial history, which is daunting and naturally unwilling to marry. ?
Although it is important for the imperial power to be rich, the princess has to bear the risk of cruel condemnation every year after marriage, especially in the era when men are superior to women, the family status of women is unacceptable to many men's traditional thinking, and the family status is not high. In ancient times, donkeys and other men could take concubines, and donkeys and horses needed the consent of the princess to take concubines. Since the princess's position in the Tang Dynasty is so high, the war horse is certainly not allowed to have three wives and four concubines, but instead of this, it is better to combine with the marriage of dignitaries, which is in line with the ideal of the Tang Dynasty.
Chai Shao's father was an official in the Sui Dynasty, while Chai Jia and Li Jia were family friends and served as officials in the same dynasty. Tang Gaozu married his third daughters Pingyang and Chai Shao, and they became husband and wife. At this time, Tang Gaozu was not a god and Pingyang was not a princess. When Li Yuan defected, he told his daughter and son to flee to Taiyuan. Pingyang also showed no weakness in the process of helping her father-in-law in Chai Shao. When Chai Shao was preparing to support Li Yuan before leaving Chang 'an, Princess Pingyang said, Husband, please speed up your support first. ?
I am a woman who is easy to hide in this reason, and I can use my own strategy to deal with it. She is still an admirable woman. She recruited an army of more than 65,438+10,000 alone, waiting for a response in Chang 'an. Her courage and wisdom coexist, and both have the courage not to be afraid of danger. After Li Yuan captured Chang 'an, he ascended the throne as emperor, who was called "Tang" in history.
Being Princess Pingyang can be said to be a miserable couple. Chai Shao joined forces with Li Yuan and Li Shimin in all directions, making great contributions to the Tang Dynasty. As a mule, he was named one of the twenty-four heroes of Lingyange by lord protector and a surname. However, Princess Pingyang was less than 23 years old when she died. She was buried in the ceremony of the founding heroes in history, which shows her position in Li Yuan's heart. Gave birth to a child named Chai Lingwu.