I had a classmate before, who was particularly disgusted with blind date. Then she couldn't stand the urge at home and reluctantly went on a blind date. She didn't wash her hair, didn't prepare anything, and greeted her with a dull face. Her original intention was to let the other party abandon her in order to quickly end the embarrassing date, only to find that the other party was her own dish ... but she regretted it too late, and she didn't perform well on the first date. When she came back, the other party refused her.
2. When you meet for the first time, whether you are interested or not, you should behave well. What if the other person is better than you think? What if he looks ten times better than in the picture? What if he is dull on the internet but humorous in reality? What if he has a good brother to introduce you to? So put on makeup, dress up and go on a blind date with full enthusiasm! !
Don't really treat blind date as blind date. What does this mean?
Just don't show too much purpose at first, don't ask many questions in the form of investigation, and don't let people introduce themselves as soon as they come up. It's best to make your acquaintances look romantic and accidental.
Most blind date people are passive, so if you like each other, please take the initiative.
Generally speaking, if you are particularly active emotionally, you will choose to find your own boyfriend and girlfriend, and you may have already taken off the bill. Therefore, blind date people are generally emotionally passive, either shy and inexperienced, or have no strong emotional needs. For such people, you can't expect them to contact you with enthusiasm and enthusiasm. Even if they like you, they may not take action because they don't know what to talk to you about.
So if you like each other, you should take the initiative and create more opportunities. In the process of blind date, both parties are equal. Don't feel like a girl, wait for someone else to chase you.
It is normal to take the initiative to chat for at least one day and make an appointment. Of course, it is active sacrifice and confession. Opportunity can be won, but it doesn't mean kneeling. Generally, you have been dating alone for more than five times, and you should consider whether to give up before the other party makes it clear.
5. The probability of blind date falling in love at first sight is very low. Don't deny each other as soon as you come up. You might as well give each other more opportunities to meet.
Why is the probability of blind date falling in love at first sight low? Because it has a strong purpose, you are always asking for each other by the standards of future couples, so it is easy to improve your requirements. Because everyone's imagination of their other half may be perfect, but everyone will have shortcomings, so it is difficult for two people with strict standards to get in touch and fall in love at first sight when they meet for the first time.