Do you know the marriage customs in the south?
Wedding reception: On the morning of the wedding, the man's reception team will come to the woman's house to pick up the bride. Nowadays, picking up the bride is the climax of the whole wedding. The first level is "getting started". If you want to find a beautiful woman successfully, you must go through a series of intellectual and physical tests, and romantic words can be added when necessary, but the most important thing is to "open the door for the benefit of the market". Sisters will not open the door if they are not satisfied. The groom should bring a bouquet to marry the bride (the bride should not make her own bouquet). 2. Looking for red shoes: The groom will look for red shoes for the bride in the room where the bride is picked up, put on red shoes and take the bride away. 3, the big tea ceremony (Dafa muffins, money, dragon gifts, fried piles, red envelopes, etc. ) 4. Fireboard: After arriving at the man's house, the bride stepped into the man's house with the help of Daikin. A brazier (copper basin or iron basin) burning charcoal will be placed outside the gate in advance, and the bride needs to cross it. This is called "crossing the brazier", which means prosperity and evil spirits. Next, there is a ceremony to pay homage to the church, which is divided into three steps. The first step is to worship heaven and earth, the second step is to worship ancestors, and the third step is to worship Wengjiagu. After paying homage to heaven and earth and ancestral ancestral ancestral hall, a couple will bow to the parents of the groom, and the bride will offer fragrant tea to the elderly, and then offer tea to the elders one by one according to their generations and ages. As for whether to kneel or not, it depends on the respect and preferences of both sides. After bowing to their parents, the newlyweds will worship each other. Sister Dajin kept saying some auspicious words, and the ceremony was not completed until they rented each other to pay homage. 5. Tea worship: For traditional China people, tea worship is a very important etiquette. When the newlyweds worship their ancestors, they should offer tea to their parents, which not only means thanking their parents for their upbringing, but also means that both parents accept the groom or bride as a new member of the family, which is a symbol of their recognized status. Two red dates and lotus seeds are usually put in the fragrant tea used by newcomers to worship tea, which symbolizes the good omen of early birth. After drinking the bride's cup of tea, the new family, grandparents and elders will send gold bracelets, jade and other jewelry as gifts for their newly married wives, and also put a gift on the tray of fragrant tea (commonly known as "betel nut box") as a reward for Dajin's sister. Eating glutinous rice balls: One of the most common customs is eating glutinous rice balls. Before the wedding, the groom should have a few bites of glutinous rice balls with his parents, brothers and girlfriends, indicating that he wants to leave them. Generally, there are mothers who pay attention to feeding glutinous rice balls to their daughters. At this time, the bride should be moved to tears. Beaming: After seeing the woman's family, the groom should bring the prepared bouquet to the room and give it to the bride who is getting married. At this time, the bride's sisters will deliberately stop the groom and put forward many conditions that the groom can't talk about. The most common way is to give the sisters with red envelopes as gifts. Farewell: The bride should say goodbye to her parents, while the groom can just bow. Going out: The bride should be escorted on the limousine by a female elder with a bamboo plaque or a black umbrella, because the bride can't see the sunshine overhead, and the other party hopes to live a happy life like this female elder. Gift cart: a float specially used to hold gifts. Bamboo plaque can be placed on the back cover of the gift car or on the special car for delivering gifts. Fan worship: Before the bride got on the limousine, an auspicious little boy held a fan (put it on a tea tray) for the bride, and the bride returned a red envelope to express her gratitude. Never say goodbye: you can't say goodbye to a woman's family when everyone leaves her home. Throw a fan: After the car starts, the bride should throw the fan out of the window to show that she will not bring her bad temper to her husband's house. The little boy will pick up the fan and give it to her family. They will return a red envelope to thank her. Set off firecrackers: set off firecrackers when the limousine leaves the woman's house. Touch oranges: When the limousine arrives at the man's house, a child with two oranges greets the couple. The bride should gently touch the orange and then thank the red envelope. Guide the bride: When the bride gets off the bus, a lucky elder of the man will hold a bamboo plaque on her head and help her into the hall. Avoid stepping on the threshold: just cross the threshold. Because the older generation said that it is not good to step on the threshold! Go through the brazier and step on the tiles: When the bride enters the hall, she must go through the brazier and step on the tiles. Entering the bridal chamber: The couple will sit on the bench with the groom's trousers in advance, which means that they will make concerted efforts in seeking children in the future. No man is allowed into the bridal chamber. Avoid sitting in a new bed: on the wedding day, no one is allowed to sit in a new bed, and the bride is not allowed to lie down to avoid being sick in bed all the year round. In addition, after going to bed, you should find a little boy with a happy family, roll a few times on the new bed and climb, which means having children early. Do you know the wedding customs in the south? First of all, the wedding reception: On the morning of the wedding, the man's reception team will go to the woman's house to receive relatives. Nowadays, picking up the bride is the climax of the whole wedding. The first level is "getting started". If you want to successfully get the beauty back, you must go through a series of intellectual and physical tests, and if necessary, add love songs, but the most important thing is a rich "good start". Sisters will not open the door if they are not satisfied. The groom should bring a bouquet to marry the bride (the bride should not make her own bouquet). Second, look for red shoes: the groom will look for red shoes for the bride in the room where the bride is picked up, and can only take the bride away after wearing them. Third, worship tea: the couple will worship tea for their parents (according to the old custom, the couple should not worship before visiting Weng Gu at the man's house, that is, the couple should stand and worship tea for the woman's parents. However, at present, I am not so particular about it. Kneel if you want. Fourth, support the red umbrella to scatter rice: the bridesmaid supports the red umbrella to accompany the bride and groom to go out, and will scatter rice to the chicken while walking to avoid the chicken pecking at the bride. 5. Go around Jixiang Road: The car to pick up the bride must go around the road called Jixiang Road in the urban area. Such as auspicious road, Huifu road and other roads in the name of good luck. 6. Going through the door: Going through the door means that after the bride goes out from the woman's house to meet the elder of the man's house, she officially steps into the man's house. 7. Wedding: The ceremony was held in the hotel and presided over by the master of ceremonies. Eighth, respect the guests: After the banquet begins, when the fish is served, the bride puts on the traditional dragon and phoenix robe to offer tea to the guests. Ninth, enter the bridal chamber: After the banquet, the couple and some friends will begin to visit or entertain the bridal chamber. Ten, back to the door: Three Dynasties back to the door refers to the third day after marriage, the bride, accompanied by her husband, returned to her family with roast pigs and gifts to worship her ancestors.