My mother-in-law keeps saying that she is a bowl of water for her children's marriage, but I really appreciate the way she carries this bowl of water.
Because she generously gave me a suite, I decided to break up my marriage. People may think I'm crazy. Where can I find such a generous mother-in-law? But you can understand how I feel after reading it.
Speaking of my love experience with my boyfriend Shen Chao, there are also some bumps. The most important thing is that his family is not very good, which has always kept him from passing through my parents. My own family is relatively rich, and my mother is the kind of person who pays special attention to things related to me. In my words, she is poor and nervous.
After learning her boyfriend's name, she went out to investigate for several days. When she came back, she shook her head like a rattle she bought me as a child and said that she would stop me this time anyway.
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I asked my mother why, and she said, "Your boyfriend is not a big problem. The problem is that his mother's reputation among the surrounding population is really poor. She is smart and snobbish, and prefers her daughter. Neighbors say that your boyfriend loves his sister as much as his mother, and he never disputes about things related to his sister and voluntarily abstained. Originally, what his family wants has nothing to do with us, but it is another matter for you to be a daughter-in-law. If you do enter that door, you will only suffer as much as your boyfriend. His family is not rich in the first place. In this case, which mother will agree! "
In my opinion, it is an advantage for my mother-in-law to be smart in the future If she is not smart, how can she raise a pair of children? There is nothing wrong with their family's love for their little daughter, which proves that my mother-in-law at least has no big prejudice in treating the child's gender, which is quite rare.
I am also a girl who is spoiled by her parents at home. I have a sense of psychological security when I hear that my future mother-in-law is kind to her daughter. This feeling can only be expressed in words. I wonder if anyone else has the same idea with me.
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But my mother said I lost my head, just for a man, who really can't tell me. "Your skull is broken. It seems that your mother will take you to see a doctor in a few days. " She said this when she came out angrily.
But in the end, she didn't bother me, but when talking about marriage, she threw out a killer weapon and asked my mother-in-law to either prepare a wedding room for us; Either prepare a down payment of 200,000 yuan to buy a house, otherwise it's hopeless.
At that time, I thought my mother had gone too far, my husband's family was in a bad economic situation, and my sister-in-law was getting married soon. Once she got married, she didn't empty out her family.
Just when I wanted to tell my mother, I agreed without thinking about my mother-in-law. That honesty made me doubt that the real situation of his family might not be as specific as I thought, and I was quite happy at that time.
My sister-in-law and I started planning the wedding at the same time, thinking that my life in my husband's family should be better after the little princess got married, and I have been in a happy mood.
As the wedding approached, I suggested seeing the house. My mother-in-law gave me the key and address, and said in front of the whole family, "daughter-in-law, my mother has fulfilled her promise and bought the house for you." I treat you and my daughter the same. When her husband buys a house, I will marry a car, and you can have whatever you want. "
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When I ran over with joy, I froze at once and didn't recover for a long time. The house is an old house in the 1980s, but it looks very old. I still paid the down payment, not the full amount.
When I went in, I saw that the small two-bedroom apartment was full of moldy smells and no furniture. I asked my husband, and he told me that the down payment for buying this suite was 80,000 yuan, and the car that my sister-in-law accompanied me was worth 200,000 yuan. This is what she called a bride price carefully prepared according to my mother.
When we went back, before I could speak, my mother-in-law said, "I'm ready for the house and the task has been completed." If you want to decorate and buy furniture, it depends on how much your family gives you. "
I also told her after listening: "Aunt, I'm not getting married." I don't think it is necessary for her to agree to my mother's proposal when she is in trouble. She thinks there are some harsh conditions. My mother was angry at that time. I could have talked her out of it. The big deal is that we don't have to get married so soon.
But what she did made me realize that she was cunning, eccentric and a little clever, which made me angry. But my boyfriend has been persuading me to accept this house now. Anyway, the size is a home, although the appearance is old, but living a good life is still the same.
It's not too late to buy a new one after making money, but I don't think that's the reason. I can't bear to part with my boyfriend, but I can't accept the practice of my prospective mother-in-law. What should I do?