I have been thinking, is the frog jumping out of the wellhead happy, or other frogs don't know that there is a sky outside the wellhead.
But the problem of struggling in a big city is different from the story of a frog. Now, we already know that there is that sky outside the well, so we have to choose whether to stay at the bottom of the well or jump out! The frog in the story chose to jump out. Are people worse than frogs?
Every time I see the subway after work, people come and go, and the faces are dull and numb, I will think about what would have happened if I had been a civil servant in my hometown. Then I realized I couldn't go back.
Take wedding photos in big cities when you get married, and have wine to drink in your hometown. My hometown is a county-level city, and I have three dresses. I was afraid that the wedding company in my hometown would mix them into a rural style, so I bought all the same ones for a favorite star to get married, and sent the photos to the makeup artist early, saying that I would prepare the clothes and the rest would be prepared by the makeup artist. A few days before the wedding, I asked on WeChat if the color of the fake braid was a little yellow. What did the makeup artist say about fake braids? Nani! I said there was a set of dragon and phoenix robes, and the accessories should be inserted in the wig. As a result, they said they didn't know about this thing, such as headdress, wig, earrings and necklace.
I suddenly became very confused. I asked several times if everything was ready. What do you mean, nothing? ! ! Then I bought it in a hurry, but fortunately I caught up. As a result, there was something wrong when I tried it on. The makeup artist has no idea how to do that hairstyle. Fortunately, I did my homework online, and Baidu gave her the steps on the spot. I am such a careless person that I have to be so worried. Is this because the makeup artist's work attitude is not serious? Her local evaluation is not bad. I think she doesn't have this consciousness. Usually everyone has to put on makeup when they get married. Everyone wears heavy makeup and blue eye shadow. All along, everyone thinks that bridal makeup is like this. Hair is not curled up casually, just high or low. Even Baidu randomly finds out many shapes of teaching steps, but she won't, because she never needs to work, no one has this demand, or someone has this demand, and no one will ask all wedding companies, so forget it.
Thinking of taking wedding photos in big cities, I went to find someone without worrying about anything. All kinds of ancient wedding dresses, with the same star and the same name, are all beautiful things. I can change n kinds of cosmetics and clothes. I knew then that I couldn't go back. All kinds of welfare in big cities have been quietly integrated into my life and formed my habit. Urban services are also difficult to buy from the state. Not a picture on the internet, but buying all kinds of latest popular scissors-male color and star color. I always go to Hong Kong to buy milk powder, sk2 and Deco. Bicycles from mobike and ofo are everywhere. What can I do when I go back? There are no doctors to see a doctor, only a few restaurants to eat. The wedding company there doesn't even know what a dragon and phoenix robe is. There is really no turning back in life, so we can only go straight ahead. If I am tired, I can slow down.
Accustomed to the fast-paced life in big cities, I always feel that I am wasting my life when I go back. This is a feeling I didn't have before I came out. Maybe I used to come home from work after five o'clock, and everyone felt this way. Now, you know there are so many people fighting until the wee hours, and every day.
Of course, there are good and bad things in big cities, but if you are poor and really want to buy a house, coming to a big city can help you buy a house in your hometown faster. The house price in our county is 4000 yuan, and the average wage is only 1000. It is not easy to find a job. If you come to a big city, 10 thousand yuan a month can save at least 5000 yuan. You have been in your hometown. When can I afford a house? You might as well come out. You can save money quickly and learn a lot. Besides, who can tell the fate of life? Maybe you can stand firm and take root here. Instead of waiting until you are 30 or 40 years old before you can stand your youth and dreams, or become a lifelong regret, it is better to come out while you are young and go back when you are wrong.