In the old days, on the day of adoption, the bride's family prepared a sedan chair for four people to greet the groom with pedestrians as deacons, commonly known as "lifting the lang's head", or the day before, the bride was pressed into the new house by her family. When it comes to Japan, the sedan chair advocates carrying the bride to the door to celebrate the magical turn, like the wedding of the man's family. There are also brides who don't sit in sedan chairs. At that time, men and women will get married and the etiquette will be simple.

The wedding ceremony of a son-in-law is usually simple and not extravagant. But there are also overseas Chinese or wealthy families. The man whose son-in-law is adopted comes to live at home first, and the daughter goes to live at her grandmother's house. On an auspicious wedding day, there are still sedan chairs to greet the grandmother, and the family still arranges queues for the newlyweds, marries the bride with warm guns, kicks open the sedan chair door, invites her out of the sedan chair, and takes the newlyweds to the hall to pay homage according to ancient practice. Similarly, the drums are deafening and the guns are deafening. Men adopted by their wives are often chosen by their daughters. From this point of view, it is better than the marriage arranged by "parents' orders" and "matchmaker's words" in which girls are in the dark.