Tongling's habit seems to be: the wedding ceremony is to see the man, there are many good people and few bad people. It is ok for the man to give a dowry of about 10 thousand yuan, because the man pays for the banquet in the woman's house. In addition, the man must remember not to follow the woman's house to every relative's house, so you will spend more. Give the money to your future mother-in-law and let her find a reason. There are plenty of opportunities to meet.