My husband has a younger brother. When we got married, my brother-in-law was still in college, and my in-laws treated her husband and brother-in-law equally, without saying which one was particularly partial. In the second year of marriage, I gave birth to my daughter. I didn't have milk at that time, so I simply let my daughter drink milk. I went out to work and my daughter was taken care of by my mother-in-law. Although my husband and I haven't had a vigorous emotional experience like other couples, our married life is not bad.
My husband is a person who doesn't care much. For example, I usually give more money to my family, and my husband never says anything. However, the money I give home is also my own salary. My husband has never asked me how much I get paid a month. Whether I have money or not, I just ask my husband for money, and he is still very generous to me. A gift is one or two thousand. My husband was so generous to me, and my mother told me.
I'm not saying I don't trust my husband. I just think it's always better for a woman to have a few dollars. My mother's family also has a younger brother, about the same age as her brother-in-law. My brother is more promising than me. He was admitted to the university, so I usually take care of my brother, because my parents are ordinary workers, and they all make money by selling their labor. I also want to help my parents lighten their burden. Maybe my idea is selfish, I feel in my heart.
That's why my husband doesn't like me My husband means to be fair to both parents. After all, both parents are parents, but I don't take these words to heart, so my husband and I will quarrel slowly. But we quarreled, but we didn't say anything too much. Now we have been married to our husband for six or seven years, and there have been many quarrels over the years. Yesterday was the National Day, and it was also the wedding day of my brother-in-law. Brother-in-law got married and gave five thousand red envelopes.
Because we also bought a refrigerator for our new home at my brother-in-law's house, and it cost nearly 10,000 yuan, so I said that the 5,000 yuan red envelope for marriage was almost the same, that is,15,000 yuan. As elder sister-in-law, it is enough for us to pay so much. A year after my brother-in-law got married, my brother will get married. My brother went back two days before his wedding. After all, there are many things to do at home, so I went back to help my parents. When my brother got married, I gave a bride price of 50 thousand yuan.
I didn't tell my husband about the money in advance. When I went back to my mother's house, my husband gave me 10 thousand yuan, saying that it was given by my brother when he got married, and the remaining 40 thousand was my own money. I thought it was my own money, so I didn't tell my husband My husband didn't come until my brother got married. After the wedding, we counted the gifts in the room. When he saw the gift book, he picked it up and looked at it. At that time, I didn't care about anything When we went back in the evening, my husband asked me, how generous your sister is!
I listened to my husband's strange tone and said to him, "What's the matter? What's the strange tone of your voice? " Then the husband said, "What's the matter? My brother got married, and you gave him 40 thousand more behind my back. What do you mean you look down on our family, or don't treat them as family at all? You usually forget to take money from your mother's house, and the expenses at home are also for you. "
I was angry to hear that my husband had filed for divorce. What happened when I gave money to my own brother? I didn't use his money to help my mother's family. I used my own money. What's he angry about? So my husband and I quarreled. My husband said I was unreasonable. Does everyone say I'm being unreasonable? Is it wrong for me to supplement my family with my own money?