Is the cost of marriage too high? I think so, because it is understandable to pursue some ceremonies, but you should consider the cost of the wedding. You want a wedding that you will never forget. Of course there is no problem, but you should consider it. In reality, after you get married, you will be a family. How much financial ability do you have? You have a favorite sentence. How capable are you to do great things? You two can't add up to more than 654.38+10,000 yuan a year. 250 thousand for a wedding. Do you think it's realistic? You must consider the future.
Different income ability corresponds to different consumption ability. If you both make money, it doesn't matter if you earn more money. Both you and your family think that this life is a great opportunity to do it once. If you have this financial ability, you won't be in debt, and you won't be swollen and fat. That's great, of course, but how much money can you scrape together? Because usually, if you can save 50% of your income a year, you will be considered excellent. Your two incomes add up to 200,000, and you can save 65,438+10,000 a year. Only after you have worked for two and a half years can you make up for the cost of this wedding.
Different soldiers have different consumption concepts. Some people think it is worthwhile to hold a grand wedding even if I spend two or three years of savings, but others think it is not easy to make money. I earned all this money bit by bit, not to mention simple, but at least I don't have to waste it. Just do it to a similar extent. With a little control, turn this 250,000 into150,000 or even 65,500.