If the mother-in-law knows that a woman is pregnant when she lives with her son before marriage, the reasonable mother-in-law will be filled with joy, while the more serious mother-in-law will think that the daughter-in-law has misbehaved and has moral problems. A word of advice to women: a woman who lives together before marriage is not only irresponsible to herself, but her mother-in-law may also look down on you.
Lisa is a dancer, elegant, dignified and beautiful. There are many boys pursuing her, but she doesn't care. The boyfriend she wants to find must have a mature and elegant gentleman demeanor and a rich family, which are the conditions that most people like. She doesn't care.
Yue Lao's red line was finally thrown at her. After a performance, she went to the backstage dressing room and saw a thin and gentle young man standing there with a bunch of pink roses in his hand, looking at her affectionately. Lisa blushed immediately.
The young man's name is Zhao Hai, and he has just returned from studying in England. He likes ballet, and Lisa's graceful dancing on the stage intoxicated him. For a month in a row, as long as Lisa appeared, he would be there. Today, he summoned up the courage to express his affection to her.
Zhao Hai is knowledgeable, humorous, talkative and very tolerant, which is exactly what Lisa wants. After Zhao Hai's fierce pursuit, Lisa finally agreed to be his girlfriend.
On the day when she went home to see her in-laws, Lisa dressed up and became more beautiful and refined. She selected advanced tonic for her in-laws and knocked on Zhao Hai's door carefully.
Zhao Hai was born in a Kochi family, and his parents are university teachers. They were interested in the quiet and intellectual Lisa and praised her son's good eye. During the conversation, my mother-in-law mentioned several times that it would be great to have a grandson in the future. Lisa is very shy and embarrassed. The old man took her hand and said, "Son, after studying in Xiaohai for so many years, we are very pleased to find you in your thirties. He is the only son of the Zhao family, and our second child really hopes to have a grandson soon! " Say that finish, his face is permeated with a happy smile. Lisa knows the old man's mind and responsibilities on his shoulders.
On the National Day of 20 18, Lisa and Zhao Hai got marriage certificates. Planning for the wedding began in a month.
At the weekend, Lisa was invited by her prospective mother-in-law to eat jiaozi at home. After dinner, Xiao er began to sort out the wedding supplies he bought all day. My mother-in-law said: "I am holding a wedding in Zhao Hai, inviting all my relatives and friends and the best wedding company to make it grand and lively." Say that finish, happy mouth doesn't close properly.
Suddenly, Lisa wants to be naughty once. Don't old people like children? I think I'm pregnant. Let's see if she's surprised. Lisa didn't think deeply. She stepped forward to hold her mother-in-law's hand and said cautiously, "Aunt, I'm pregnant." Unexpectedly, the smile on the old man's face froze instantly. She looked at Lisa in surprise and immediately showed disdain: "You have children, so the wedding is simple." The sudden change made Lisa regret it very much. One of her jokes caused her mother-in-law so much disgust. However, didn't the old man always say that he wanted to have grandchildren?
In an extremely embarrassing atmosphere, Lisa forced out a smile and said, "I'm going to the bathroom." As soon as I got to the corridor, I heard the old man say to Zhao Hai, "Son, who did you choose? So casual, it is really despicable to get pregnant before marriage. "
Hearing this sentence, Lisa's heart sank. Although Lisa admitted her mistake to her mother-in-law, the wedding was held ceremoniously and everything recovered as before. But since then, Lisa has also understood that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are two generations, and their concepts and values are really different.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have different concepts and values. Now the times are very open, and women have the same rights as men. However, in her mother-in-law's time, she was not very enlightened. Wearing a little coquettish clothes or lipstick may say that this woman has a bad character. Nowadays, women must protect themselves in marriage and can't agree to live with men before marriage at will. If the man you love, his mother is a very serious person, and she is very concerned about the cohabitation of women before marriage, then even if the person you live with before marriage is his son, she will not like you. For their marriage and happiness, women must know how to live an honest and clean life.
Don't blame her mother-in-law for not liking to live with her son before marriage, which just shows that her three views are correct. Women should be happy to have such a mother-in-law. Maybe some friends will say that Lisa's prospective mother-in-law should keep the wedding simple as soon as she hears that her daughter-in-law is pregnant. This shows that this mother-in-law is selfish. There is nothing wrong with people who have this idea. Some mother-in-law knew that the prospective daughter-in-law was pregnant before marriage, and thought that since she was pregnant, she was a member of our family, and a simple wedding would save a lot of money. However, some mothers-in-law really think that the prospective daughter-in-law chooses to live with her son before marriage, and her behavior is disorderly.
For whatever reason, it is best for a woman not to live together with the person she loves before marriage. Even if you know that he will marry you, he can still love you wholeheartedly. Because this is not only responsible for yourself, but also for your future marriage happiness. You know, if you meet a real mother-in-law, she will definitely look down on you when she knows that you are living together before marriage.